From Stripper to Strumpet

Posted by Nevaeh Nova on September 21, 2016

For the last three years I have been working as an exotic dancer in my hometown, Portland, Oregon. It all started when I found out a girlfriend of mine was dancing. I was nervous for her and I didn’t want her “giving her body away.” Little did I know, there was no “giving” at all. It was all a tease; like a Swarovski Crystal claiming to shine like a diamond. Both are pretty, its just the diamond is the real deal. After I’d seen the amount of money she was making and took the time to go down to the club, I realized that it was all just a big party. Music, crowds, and lots of sexy dancing. So I auditioned, and I got hired. I made more money in that one night than I had in two weeks at my other job. Work smarter, not harder right? The allure of the sex work industry provoked me to explore other employment opportunities available to adult entertainers like myself, and I eventually decided to try selling my salacious services at a Nevada brothel.

You’re probably wondering why I went from being a stripper to a legal courtesan. Overall, there are certain freedoms that legal strumpet-ing offers me (and my clients) that exotic dancing simply doesn’t. So, let me explain why I chose to dive into this scandalous job, and illustrate why I believe that strippers are the Swarovski Crystals of the sex industry, and Nevada’s courtesans are the diamonds.

More than just a tease

First of all, dancing is all the allure and seduction of a woman with one restriction: You cannot take her home and enjoy her. You may only look and buy lap dances that yes, allow you to spend an allotted amount of time with her and feel her, but in a very unsatisfying and sometimes uncomfortable way. At a strip club, it never truly is all about YOU (the customer). And don’t forget you have all these extra eyes watching you. Whether it is other customers enjoying the dance you just payed for or the body guards making sure you do not cross this imaginary line. Here at Dennis Hof’s Sagebrush Ranch in Nevada, all you have to do is find the right girl and every fantasy, sinful pleasure, or vice you may have will be catered to – minus all the staring patrons and pressure to control your temptations. I have a libido from hell, so I too get to indulge and enjoy. The choice to become a working girl was motivated not only by money, but also by the fact that I can partake in any activity I want, and not just be a tease.

Unlimited sexual possibilities

Second, being in the confines of a nightclub I do not control the environment. All stimulus is prearranged, including the music and the options for activities. Some clubs only offer topless dancers where at others the girls can strip completely. Some clubs have V.I.P rooms while other clubs merely have sheer curtains to separate your seat from the next guy’s. At a strip club your erotic options are limited, usually to some sort of lap dance, and you don’t get real, prolonged privacy with your entertainer. Here at Dennis’s legal brothels, there is no end to how you can party. We can indulge in your hottest, deepest, most extreme sexual fantasies. There are virtually no limitations to what we can sexually explore together, in a truly private and discreet environment.

You get the real me

Lastly, and I feel most importantly, I chose to become a working girl because I do not have to hide myself. Dancing you have to differentiate your stage presence from your personal life. People are not having a full blown “Where did you grow up? How do you like your men? Whats your favorite position? Do you have multiple orgasms?” conversation while the girls are on stage. Its all in the eyes, the movements, and the outfits I happen to be wearing. In my opinion, the best foreplay is a very deep conversation about each of our wants and desires. We don’t have to edit our words or try and avoid security to indulge in our fantasies. You don’t have to assume what I like, because I can show you. You won’t forever have to imagine what it would be like if we had sex, because here at Dennis’ brothels all of us are given the opportunity to cum over and over again! Neither of us has to be disappointed when we get home because we didn’t get to feel the love of our “crush.” You get to know the real me versus the stage me.

I hope that with this little explanation you have come to understand why I was so attracted to this industry. We are all freaks at heart, and self awareness is the first step towards self-fulfilling prophecies.

Learn to listen to your libido; and in the mean time I will be warming up my sheets and fluffing my pillows…