The Importance of Non Sexual Intimacy
Posted by Roxanne Price on October 26, 2017
Intimacy can come in many forms, with or without the inclusion of sex. It’s important to experience as many different levels of intimacy with your partner as you can both before and after intercourse. As a specialist in the girlfriend experience, I’d like to share some information about the different types of stimulation that can be achieved from something as simple as touch or an intense kiss. Oxytocin, sometimes called the ‘bonding hormone’, is naturally produced by your body during close intimate contact. Participating in these activities often can even promote your health! I hope that this article can help clarify why taking your time with intercourse is so very important. I’ve found that a number of people have this idea that they should just jump right into sex, especially with a provider of sexual services, like myself, but even the most casual foreplay can be crucial if you’re wanting to have a worthwhile experience.
There’s a myriad of positive sensations that come from being kissed, held, and enjoying human touch. I’m a big proponent of spending my time this way in the bedroom. It allows the both of us to relax and become more vulnerable to one other so we can really enjoy our experience together. While experiencing this kind of intimacy, you can simultaneously build sexual anticipation and discover exactly how to please your partner’s body. The mouth is a highly sensitive area and even small amounts of stimulation on your partner’s lips can drive them wild. Subtle sensations, like your partner’s scent and taste, start to overwhelm all of your own senses and allow you to become lost in experiencing their body. Feeling their breath on your face sends you into a sort of rhythmic trance, which can be extremely erotic! Not to mention there’s so many different ways to kiss, or be kissed… The tongue is eager to be stimulated, and slow kissing starts to become so much sweeter.
Personally, I enjoy a naughty bite on the lip to grab my attention, and playfulness in the bedroom can create some delightful results! The most intimate part of kissing someone is making eye contact… That’s really what fuels a passionate makeout session. I take great pride in learning how to be a great kisser for my partner. I make an excellent teacher in person, but what I will share with you now is that you don’t have to be a good kisser naturally… It’s all about learning how your partner would like to be kissed, and being able to communicate your own desires. If you are being kissed a certain way and enjoy it, then you can always mirror your partner’s rhythm, or you can switch things up with a little bit of communication. Everybody enjoys different things, so be sure to give your partner feedback on what you like!
The best way to cuddle with your favorite person is during a cold winter night. It feels the absolute best when you can notice the delightful contrast of hot and cold. It’s the same reason why lava cake is so delicious! You have the option of being the big spoon, or the little spoon… It’s such a conforming way to drift off into dreamland. Cuddling is a genuine bonding exercise as well! The closeness makes you feel valued, and it can be healthy for both parties psychologically. If you want to have a long lasting relationship, then remember to do lots of it! Feeling the weight of another person’s body encircling yours can remedy feelings of anxiousness, just like a weighted blanket would.
You should always cuddle before and after enjoying sexual intimacy. I understand that some people aren’t as interested in extended connections, but as a long-term sex worker I always do my best to invest in meaningful encounters. I focus on enjoying my partner as much as I can, and part of that is achieved by communicating what arouses my desires. There have been plenty of occasions where someone has sought out my services and we didn’t have sex on the first date at all! Candid conversations and having interactive experiences together is another way to build a healthy amount of sexual tension… Of course, this is the preferred way to achieve a healthy connection between two people. A willingness to cultivate a connection properly will always result in better pleasure for both of us… The more sexual tension we can build up before our encounter, the more thoroughly you will enjoy yourself. I’m someone who aims to maximize my partner’s pleasure, so this is the best advice I could ever give for doing just that.
Many people seek out organic time, love, and care. To me this comes naturally, as I take my time with every experience I enjoy with a partner. I believe it’s important that non-sexual intimacy be a part of every experience! It’s my hope that the idea of sex workers strictly providing rushed encounters can and should be a thing of the past. Being able to provide therapeutic intimacy for someone who doesn’t normally get it is by far one of the most satisfying parts of what I do.
Roxanne Price
Lovely and curvaceous, Roxanne Price is an elite courtesan who prides herself on providing the “authentic girlfriend experience.” An empathetic woman with a genuine sensitivity to her client’s sexual needs, Roxanne provides transformative erotic experiences to men from all walks of life.
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So true and very well written, Roxanne!
I’m glad that you liked it, thanks for reading! <3
This service is great for those who are in the two tenths of the top one percent. The reality is that middle class working people can’t afford services like this because of the massive transfer of wealth from working families to the top one tenth of one percent over the last forty years. In fact, one half of the money for this service will go to the corporate guy that has 90 billion dollars. Just think about this for a moment – the person doing all of the work is receiving only half of the money. This young lady deserves better!
I have no complaints about my set up, but I do appreciate your opinion. Working girls offer a range of differing services, so that every person’s budget can be met. Hiring sex workers will always be a luxury, not a necessity. I wish I could say that your statement was mostly factual, but sadly I cannot. The only part that holds up is the fact that the girls split their earnings with the house that they work at.
Cuddling nude in a large tub of warm water can be very intimate rewarding experience. It provides an opportunity to kiss, make eye contact, and talk and feel the warmth of each other’s body at the same time.
It sounds like we’re both in favor of sexy hot tub time. Hehe. The water, and company is so relaxing. 😀
It’s my hope that the idea of sex workers strictly providing rushed encounters can and should be a thing of the past. Being able to provide therapeutic intimacy for someone who doesn’t normally get it is by far one of the most satisfying parts of what I do. —-my favorite part of your well written essay….
Thanks Steve, I meant every word of it! The journey is the most important part. <3
I will be showing my age but I have a question, back in the early 70’s, providers like yourself did not really want to be kissed….has this changed or is this just a personal thing…or maybe depends on the client or both. I was just curious.
Yes, there’s a handful of sex workers that offer kissing as a part of their experience! It depends on a few factors like cleanliness, the type of individual, budget, comfort levels. Stuff like that. I’m selective who I see, so anyone that I do choose to party with is someone that I feel comfortable kissing. It’s too enjoyable to pass up! 😉
Very well written Roxanne! I have good bad & horrible sexual intimacy. For me as I get older I need more stimulation other than going straight to sex. I get more out of.cuddling and foreplay than I do sex. Sex is just the icing on the cake for me. I love building a connection! It is nice to know you offer what I seek. Hopefully we can meet at the end of November when I make.my trip.down.
Grizzly
I couldn’t agree more Roxanne! I really enjoyed reading your views and thoughts. Intimacy is such an important piece to the puzzle within relationships with strong connections.
Very intense explanation of intimacy. I’ve never been able to experience this level of vulnerability and comfort with anyone before. Though, I would have some large personal goals to meet beforehand, I’d love to experience this at the Bunny Ranch some day and learn firsthand how to come out of my shell. I very much enjoyed reading through this!
I totally agree honey .. it’s the experience and all the nuances that go with it .
I was married for over 20 years… I don’t miss the sex – but I do miss the intimacy. My friends don’t understand what I mean. Holding hands on a long drive. Cuddling on the sofa watching shitty tv shows on a chilly or rainy night. Lying in bed until 3 or 4 in the morning, chatting about everything and nothing until we’re so tired we fall asleep mid-sentence. Walking up behind her as we’re getting ready for work in the morning and wrapping my arms around her torso and while burying my nose in and kissing her neck
Too many people don’t understand what intimacy is. I may never meet someone and have sex again, and I’m ok with that. The tragedy would be to never experience intimacy again…
Great article, kiddo.
Affection and companionship are often more important when you get older. When you want to feel wanted and appreciated, not just for the dough you spend, but for the person you’ve revealed yourself to be. I am a total rookie, and my parties will be few and far between, very likely non-sexual. The old fart has to agree. All that said, I hope to be worthy of the friendship of my courtesan. Because 99 percent of the time, that’s what we’ll be.
Like the old Neil Simon play, “Same Time Next Year.”