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Getting Back Into The Sex Game: Virgins, Widowers, Divorcés, & More

I have been a working girl at Dennis Hof’s Love Ranch (located across the street from the Bunny Ranch) for quite a while now. When I first started as a legal courtesan, I had sexual experience, have had different partners and relationships, but I wasn’t prepared for what would happen next.

I was so nervous the first time I was with a client that the first person who picked me in line up walked out on me. He was just as nervous as I was and neither of us were prepared to cope with each other’s anxiety. As time passed, I overcame my shyness, and I became more relaxed and better able to cater to clientele requiring my special type of sensitivity, such as adult virgins, the shy, widowers, the rusty and the recently divorced.

jade-capri-booty — Jade Capri is known for her curvaceous Brazilian body and empathetic nature

What drives someone to seek out a working girl?

The idea of a sexual experience for many can cause major anxiety and nervousness whether it has to do with performance limitations, lack of experience, or inadequacy of any sort in the bedroom. Not to mention how many men can be self-conscious of their personal appearance and never make a “move,” overthinking about how girls view them.

For many, engaging with the opposite sex and pursuing a relationship doesn’t come easy. There are a lot of guys who legitimately need intimate guidance from a discreet and empathetic woman to help men overcome their inhibitions about sex. This is why they contact women like myself.

I have received many emails that started with people pouring their hearts out to me, tormented souls who felt as if they were alone in the world. The truth is that their plight is very common, and as we corresponded and got to know each other, it became clear that the solution to their problem was to connect, spiritually and sexually, with someone who understood them and was sympathetic to their needs. Below are some details about the types of individuals that often seek my services.

jade-capri-courtesan-2 — Jade Capri from Dennis Hof’s Love Ranch North

Adult Virgins

I can sit here and tell them over email all day long how they shouldn’t be feeling afraid, anxious or nervous, that everything will be okay when they come visit. Society doesn’t always understand why someone could have not lost their virginity at the “right” time. What is their idea of a right time anyway? It’s when you feel comfortable and confident that it’s your right time. Truth of the matter is that some have waited to save themselves for when they find love, others have missed an opportunity by being too polite and falling into the “friend” category, others pursued girls that were simply not interested in any interaction with them.

Reasons for being an adult virgin can include religious upbringing, family background, being an introvert, putting school and degree first (it’s a form of not being distracted from life goals), even being a loner plays a big role on why a man over the age of 18 is still a virgin. It’s common to find people that will resort to being alone in order to avoid the pressure society puts on them.

What I try to explain to people is that being a virgin, and not having experienced sex or anything about sexuality with another human being, is mostly about not having the courage to let go and give yourself to another. Putting pressure on yourself and thinking over and over about all the negative things that could happen is a type of excuse to not try. A lot times is easier to think that waiting or tricking your mind that you don’t need it is an escape.

It’s not an easy decision to set a date for your first sexual experience with a woman when planning a trip to a brothel to see a working girl, but it is a start to a healthy sex life and a worthwhile learning experience. Remember, having sex for the first time is only wetting your toes in an ocean of possibilities. You’ll never learn to swim if you avoid the water.

jade-capri-selfie — Jade Capri takes a selfie to share with her fans

The Shy

A lot men get really anxious, nervous and almost scared about talking to women. It’s a real struggle for some to think about interaction with the opposite sex and push through it to talk to them. I have met many that described that feeling being at times similar to a physical pain, almost like and invisible force they could never overcome.

Some will try online interaction with ladies, but never make themselves go on a date as the thought of rejection is stronger than the desire of following it through. Many shy man find themselves in the Adult Virgin or Rusty category. A number of shy men have experienced sex, but might fall in to the Rusty category as it takes a long time for them to feel comfortable with another person. These type of guys can be great conversationalists given the chance. Many have very interesting hobbies and would love to share with a girl, but the thought of being intimate with a lady that they are interested in having a relationship with is like sending people to do the most impossible task you can think in life.

If you build the courage to visit me, I try to point out the good as well as what needs improvement. It’s much like a real life exercise in that you don’t need to be perfect, you just need to try – and a lot of times that works. Encouraging a person to do something that is emotionally painful to them while in a supportive environment can do wonders for a person. I am not saying that it will be instantly successful, but before you realize it, you will open up to things you never thought would be possible, and learn a great deal as you allow yourself to indulge in new sexual experiences.

jade-capri-sex-worker — Jade Capri is a licensed Nevada sex worker

The Rusty

There can be a lot of reasons why men take a sabbatical from sex at certain times in their lives. Some don’t even realize it is happening until one or two years go by and they realize they are taking time to raise the kids, enduring a marriage that does not include sex, healing from a past relationship, or have been divorced for a while, widowed, or dealing with health issues.

Being rusty does not mean they don’t know what to do, just that they haven’t had a partner in a while for a number of reasons including the ones above.

It might come as a surprise to women, but it’s hard for many men to get back in the “game” after not having any kind of physical intimacy for a while. Yes, over time, men can develop a degree of anxiety towards interaction with women that will paralyze them from approaching the opposite sex.

A lot times it’s that barrier that I help break with my dates here at the Love Ranch. Many people feel like they can take on the world after visiting with me, and that is the way a lot of my rusty visitors want to feel: confident and prepared to reenter sexual society.

jade-love-ranch — Jade Capri from the Love Ranch prepares for an outdate with a rusty client

Widowers

Losing a partner of many years can be utterly devastating. It’s important to engage in different activities to keep your mind occupied. The family may provide great support and spend time with you, but it’s not the same as having a presence of a woman. I know you will catch yourself feeling guilty at times because you are experiencing positive things while your partner is gone.

I have met people who have lost their wives years ago and did not know what to do next. They were basically stuck in a limbo that didn’t provide any light at the end of the tunnel. I know how it is because I have been there. I lost my love four years into our relationship, and it was one of the most difficult task to overcome in my life. I thought that I would never find love again.

It can be very hard to bounce back and rediscover intimacy with a woman. It feels like looking for the person you lost in others and trying to compare every single aspect of your lost relationship.

I can help you muster up the actual courage to pursue sexual intimacy with a new person. I have successful stories where people opened up to me and let themselves enjoy the moment. It’s a long process to learn how to start living a life without your honey, but it’s a path that you must take in order to find ongoing happiness. My lesson is that you find a place in your heart for your loved one and tuck her in. It will be a safe place to go when you want to remember the experiences you lived together. That won’t go away. You will just learn that you can find fun and good moments with another person. That might take time, but it will happen.

jade-capri-cleavage — Jade Capri shows off her beautiful Brazilian body

The Divorced

While you may have been thinking that an interaction with a woman wasn’t in your plans for a while after a divorce, the desire for another’s touch might overpower your plans. Your body has needs and you may find yourself thinking “How will I begin again?” How to get your mind around the fact that you are past the club scene, but certainly youthful enough to spend time with a new partner.

Forget all the bitterness that went through you and your ex during the divorce. Now, you need to focus, be positive, and get back in the game. You probably had sex with one person for a long time or haven’t had it in a while. Whatever your situation is, it’s clear that you need a little push. You just need an incentive to get moving in this life that doesn’t stop for anyone.

You will have to get out, way out of your comfort zone and experience the cruel world of dating again. Trust me, ladies can be a little judgmental when looking for a new specimen, and they will know you are the new deer-in-headlights on the block. You will probably have to start meeting new people, friends of friends, accepting invitations to parties and get togethers. Some will be dreadful and some will be fun. You won’t find someone that you click with in a snap of a finger, but don’t get discouraged. It will happen. You will also have many good stories to tell after a few dates.

You will probably need a little more than just the physical touch of a woman in your life. It is like riding a bicycle again, but depending how long you have been married it will be like an “exploring time” to learn new things sexually and get a feel for intimacy with a different person.

Why not combine it all and have one person be your part-time new lover, stylist, confidante – someone that will boost your spirits and show you that is not the end of the world by a longshot.

Seeing a working girl is a short cut to the fun time without the pressure. Being with me, you will get to experience intimacy without the need to impress or prove yourself all over again. Sometimes is ok to treat yourself to what you truly want, without compromise or judgement. I will be open to what you like and show you things that you might have yet to experience. All in your own time, of course.

courtesan-of-year — Jade Capri was awarded Courtesan of the Year 2015

Jade Capri

Jade Capri is a Brazilian bombshell beauty with a to-die-for authentic and exotic body built for pleasure. Her specialties include virgins, GFE (Girl Friend Experience), Couples, 2 Girl Sex Parties, Fetishes, Overnights, Outdates, and Bachelor Parties.

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“Tarts For Trump” Opens Campaign Office At Bunny Ranch Brothel

We have some big political news coming today from the Bunny Ranch–A group of the girls have formed “Tarts For Trump”, to support Donald Trump for president, and to provide an alternative to “Hookers For Hillary.” The pro-Trump Bunnies say that Trump’s support for personal freedoms, entrepreneurial opportunities, and women’s rights, had earned him their backing. I say bravo to them! While I am not taking sides between the two groups, I am proud they are all participating in the electoral process. They say they feel Trump is very ‘pro-whore,’and his positions are very supportive of prostitution and improving the daily lives of working girls.

The “Tarts For Trump” have so far identified and articulated a slew of campaign issues they are in agreement with Donald Trump on, and have issued the following statement:

America First

“Donald Trump’s protectionist trade policies have resonated with the Bunny Ranch’s prostitutes who have long been frustrated with competition from overseas prostitutes who severely undercut their rates and cost American sex workers’ jobs. During the Obama administration, U.S. Secret Service agents were even caught visiting overseas brothels on trips abroad, leaving American dollars in foreign hands. Our conscientious courtesans say when it comes to the prostitution trade, Americans should come first!”

Strong Borders

“Donald Trump has made the need to build a wall along our southern border a central issue of his campaign, and Nevada’s legal prostitutes have experienced first-hand the positive results of barrier protection. Whether that barrier is made of concrete or latex, the ladies of the Bunny Ranch reprise the immortal words of Ronald Reagan and Mikhail Gorbachev when they sing in unison, ‘Mr. Trump, build that wall!'”

Harley-Lane — Harley from the Moonlite Bunny Ranch proudly poses with a Trump/Pence sign

Child Care Deduction

“Because many of the single mothers who work as Bunny Ranch prostitutes earn lucrative annual incomes that land them in the top bracket of taxpayers, they would benefit from Trump’s proposed child care deduction. In a Trump administration, the ability to write off the cost of a nanny is something that Ivanka Trump and these women of ill repute would happily share!”

Veterans

“If there’s one thing that the ladies at the Bunny Ranch know something about, it’s providing aid and comfort to those who have served their country. Donald Trump says our veterans deserve better, and the comfort women of the Bunny Ranch want to personally put the ‘service’ back in the U.S.O. In a Trump administration, Nevada’s legal sex workers believe that loose lips will actually bring nationalist pride back to full mast!”

Cherry-Lane — Cherry Lane from the Kit Kat Brothel wants to help “Make America Great Again”

Ultimately my girls will have to decide whether Clinton or Trump will be the better friend to hookers if elected. Nevada is a battleground state in the presidential election, so their votes could have a real impact. Over the course of the past few years thousands of voting-eligible women have received prostitution licenses at several dozen Nevada brothels. Together they form a significant “Vice Vote” voting bloc in both local and national elections–and especially in ‘low-population’ but ‘high profile’ states such as Nevada. “Tarts For Trump?” “Hookers For Hillary?” I say let the games begin!

Dennis Hof

Dennis Hof is the charismatic owner of the Moonlite Bunny Ranch, the most famous legal brothel in the history of the world and subject of the smash hit HBO series “Cathouse.” Hof owns a total of seven licensed brothels throughout the state of Nevada including the Love Ranch, the Sagebrush Ranch, the Kit Kat Ranch, and the Alien Cathouse. Hof has lectured at Oxford, Trinity, the Sorbonne and hundreds of other major universities, colleges and public events around the globe and he is the author of the best-selling book, “The Art Of The Pimp: A Love Story” published by Regan Arts.

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Sex Work Attire: What Working Girls Prefer to Wear

Most professions have some sort of associated attire. We expect a big city lawyer to be wearing a conservative well-cut suit and a silicon valley entrepreneur to don an ultracasual hoodie. Numerous jobs require a uniform that is designed for the particular vocation, such as the protective bunker gear worn by firefighters or the sanitary scrubs worn by physicians. Many of the world’s workers could be instantly identified by the clothing and gear they wear, and there is a history and purpose to all workplace apparel. For example, the quasi-military blue uniform we associate with police officers evolved from Union Army garb from the Civil War, as surplus Yankee soldier uniforms were worn by early law enforcement officials.

One might not instantly think of the evening dresses, lingerie, and high heeled shoes worn by sex workers as part of a workplace uniform, but the carefully chosen clothing worn by the women who ply their trade in Nevada brothels like Dennis Hof’s Moonlite Bunny Ranch can be crucial to a prostitute’s success. When a harlot is competing against two dozen equally alluring coworkers for the attention of a potential client, the right ensemble could be the difference between a profitable sale and a missed opportunity.

Wearing attire that makes a woman feel confident and sexy helps a courtesan project her charm to everyone visiting the bordello. Every sex worker has a favorite outfit that makes her look and feel like a million bucks – a style of dress that has proven, time and again, to help her close a sale and persuade a customer to join her in her bedroom for a hot and heavy sex party. Below, several of Nevada’s licensed sex workers talk about their favorite racy duds, and explain why these tantalizing trappings are their professional uniform of choice.

Cherry Lane, Kit Kat Ranch

Every woman has a pair of their favorite heels, or that one outfit that makes her feel extremely beautiful and sexy. When I’m at work at the famous Kit Kat Ranch, I want to look my best at all times. I like wearing outfits that really say “hey, this is who I am” and makes me feel great as well. Personality and sex appeal has to be all over it too, as your outfit is what helps sell who you are.

So when I thought about one outfit, out of my many. Immediately I thought of my beige all lace lingerie piece which has a cute sequenced floral design the middle of the breast and a small silk edging which portrays a small skirt. I wear this with all nude panties which are also lace, to give the eyes an image of nudity. An instant turn on to many gentleman.

Now black and beige, some refer to as nude at times, are my favorite colors to duo together. So with that beige, nude lingerie piece, I wear a black lace cardigan that I tie right under the breast and mid back to add a beautiful contrast of light and dark.

My black cardigan is a Victorian style piece which has lace black, floral print for the arms which bell out around the wrists, very sexy. The rest of the cardigan is a solid black with cute little round buttons and a lace collar. It adds sex appeal to what ever I am wearing and truly fits my style.

I’m also a huge fan of thigh highs, both black and nude. Everyone who knows me always say they are my signature. Nothing is more sexy to me, than a woman in thigh highs, showing subtle skin…it really gets the imagination and blood pumping.

So speaking of my outfit above, I always wear black thigh highs with the lacey tops. I love how they hug my butt and make my legs look long and appealing. Now every outfit has to have a pair of shoes to compliment, in this situation heels.

I always wear my nude stilettos with this outfit as they compliment the black stockings and again contrast so well with each other. Although I’m 5’6”, you will always see me wearing at least 6” heels. I’m a true “Glamazon” when it comes to fashion.

Randy Ryder, Bunny Ranch

My favorite outfit to wear at the Bunny Ranch is a bright colored bikini. I enjoy wearing bikinis because they are sexy, tight, and there is not a whole lot to them. I’m very proud of my luscious, curvy body and I’m not shy when it comes to showing it off. For me, when it comes to my personal workplace style, less is more. You can always catch me in heels and a two piece that shows off my curves.

Magenta, Sagebrush Ranch

I’m known for my luminescent magenta hair, which serves to catch the attention of many brothel patrons and helps me get noticed in a sea of beautiful women. To offset my signature hairstyle, I often prefer to wear a simple yet sophisticated black dress. My look shows that I’m the cosmopolitan cutie who can join you for an enchanting evening in the city, and then show you the wildest night of your life once we get back to the bedroom…

Bella Divinity, Love Ranch North

My love for fashion is ever-evolving and ever-changing. I’m always searching for that one dress that fully represents who I am, showing how sensual and seductive I truly am by the way it’s tailored to fit my body and show off my assets. So when I hit the runway / lineup, I must dress to turn all heads and drop jaws with lust or envy. Confidence is key but true understanding of style and what suits you best is crucial. The dress I tend to be chosen in most is a peach color closest to the color nude. It squeezes and caresses my breasts so well, then cuts off to reveal my nude back then flows over my booty and stops a few inches below my vagina.

Nevaeh Nova, Sagebrush Ranch

Every woman has that one outfit that above all makes her feel more like a woman. It accentuates her curves, adds to her skin tone, peaks your interest and makes you look twice. It makes you do the double take. Its like the right hands on her body, squeezing her, whispering in her ear “Baby you got this!” Giving her the confidence to keep her chin up when there are several other beauties around her. Personally, my colors are royal; including greens, reds, and blues. Since I have been at the Sagebrush Ranch, I have been trying on all my outfits but there is one that keeps me coming back. It is a single body suit that buttons at the crotch. Navy blue lace that barely covers the goodies and a little strap up center that lets her boobies peek through. This piece has got me picked out of line up several times, not to mention all the booty compliments. I really feel confident in this piece and above all I feel more approachable. I have gotten more compliments in this piece than any other. Come in and see why, I’m sure you wouldn’t have a problem un-tying me.

Cassie Carter, Kit Kat Ranch

What is my favorite uniform to wear at work you ask? I love to wear my 5 inch midnight black stilettos. I pair it with a black high waisted mid-thigh length skirt. The style of the skirt shows off my stunningly toned long legs, and my cute butt sometimes when I bend over . My favorite top to compliment my skirt and my body is a zip up peach colored crop top. The lace on my top looks beautiful and sexy. The zipper gives it some edginess kind of like me! I feel my favorite outfit is a creation that represents my character and self very well.

James

James is the Sr. Media Director for the World Famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch. In addition, James creates the profile videos for the Company and productions. See all the videos created at vimeo.com/bunnyranch along with the productions on YouTube.com/BunnyRanchNetwork Follow Twitter @BunnyRanch Email [email protected]

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Threesome: The Most Sought After Sexual Fantasy

When someone visits me in America’s Red Light District for the first time, one of the questions I like to ask is “What’s the #1 sexual fantasy you’d like to fulfill, but haven’t been able to?”

Hands down, the top answer is a Two Girl Encounter, otherwise known as a Threesome or Three-Way Sex Party.

Why is this such a common desire, and what makes having two women in bed so special? A number of different factors often are the cause. We often see conquering two ladies in bed at the same time as being something worthy of praise – something that every man must experience at least once in their life. I agree wholeheartedly! There’s nothing like having two beautiful women on either side of you, both focused on you, lavishing you with attention. With that being said, the most common follow up question I get is “so how does a two girl party actually work?” I want to go through those details with you, step by step, so that when you do come in to have a threesome, you’re ready to go!

First, the three of us enter the room together after negotiating out the details. The negotiation always comes before the party, and involves all three parties. This is where we go over any special requests that you may have, and decide on how long we would like to spend together. Most gentleman find that longer encounters work better for them, so that we can explore all the variations and different positions. Once in the room, I always like to start things off with a sexy two-girl strip tease. Piece by piece, we will slowly and seductively slide out of our dress, revealing matching lingerie underneath. Piece of piece, this too slowly comes off, and ends up with our dresses on the floor. Now its your turn. Together, we reach across your belt, loosening your shirt before sliding it over your head. Four hands, two on each side, slide down your exposed body, kissing along the skin there. Sounds enticing, doesn’t it?

Now we head to the bed, one lady on each side, and you in the middle of us both. Foreplay with two is incredible: hands wandering up and down each others bodies, caressing and touching every inch. Exploring and discovering what brings the other pleasure. The focus can be solely on you, or we ladies can tantalize you by playing with each other. Lips trailing down necks, kissing over collarbones, fingers lightly playing over each others curves. Perhaps we can bring some toys into the room- like a Feather. Slowly we tease each other, and you – bringing on warm ripples of arousal and pleasure. With one on each side, we slowly can make our way down your chest, past your hips, to give you a double oral encounter. Tongues and fingers meet to create a perfect harmony, seamlessly working together for your enjoyment.

When we do arrive at intercourse, the positions are limitless. Perhaps you are on your knees, while one lady is positioned doggy style in front of you, while the other is behind, kissing your neck and rubbing your shoulders. Perhaps instead we are on top, where you are on your back – one straddling your face, while the other rides you. So many incredible options to explore! You can see why taking our time is so important to really get the full enjoyment out of this experience.

Afterwards, the three of us will soak in one of the lavishly large jacuzzi tubs, and maybe share some drinks. A massage is an absolute must as well – four hands to work on your muscles, relaxing you after an incredible encounter. If we’re still feeling playful, we can always keep the fun going with some continued foreplay in the tub! Another option we have is to simply relax, cuddle up, and enjoy each others presence and warmth. My favorite part of two girl parties is that the energy is multiplicative – it simply grows and grows, with all three of us adding to it. Sexual heights become that much higher. Pleasure becomes that must more pleasurable. Sensuality becomes that much more sensuous. You’ll be amazed at the huge difference just one additional body (and soul) can create.

The best piece of advice I can offer to someone seeking a two girl encounter is this: Select one lady, and then allow her to suggest a second playmate. You’re going to have a much better time when the ladies already are familiar with each other, and have established chemistry. Together, we will explore new depths and heights of arousal and pleasure. As they say: one is fun, but two is better! I invite you and encourage you to contact me with any additional questions, and to schedule a two girl encounter of your own. It’s an absolute bucket list must, and I’m going to make sure your threesome experience is one that is unforgettable.

Pictured: Alice Little & Roxanne Price

Alice Little

Alice Little is a 4’8” red-headed cutie with a super-fit, all-natural body -- but don’t let her small stature deceive you. This friendly firebox is a pocket-sized sexual powerhouse with unparalleled lovemaking skills. A part-time girlfriend coveted by both men and women, Alice will make you feel right at home at the Moonlite Bunny Ranch.

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From Stripper to Strumpet

For the last three years I have been working as an exotic dancer in my hometown, Portland, Oregon. It all started when I found out a girlfriend of mine was dancing. I was nervous for her and I didn’t want her “giving her body away.” Little did I know, there was no “giving” at all. It was all a tease; like a Swarovski Crystal claiming to shine like a diamond. Both are pretty, its just the diamond is the real deal. After I’d seen the amount of money she was making and took the time to go down to the club, I realized that it was all just a big party. Music, crowds, and lots of sexy dancing. So I auditioned, and I got hired. I made more money in that one night than I had in two weeks at my other job. Work smarter, not harder right? The allure of the sex work industry provoked me to explore other employment opportunities available to adult entertainers like myself, and I eventually decided to try selling my salacious services at a Nevada brothel.

You’re probably wondering why I went from being a stripper to a legal courtesan. Overall, there are certain freedoms that legal strumpet-ing offers me (and my clients) that exotic dancing simply doesn’t. So, let me explain why I chose to dive into this scandalous job, and illustrate why I believe that strippers are the Swarovski Crystals of the sex industry, and Nevada’s courtesans are the diamonds.

More than just a tease

First of all, dancing is all the allure and seduction of a woman with one restriction: You cannot take her home and enjoy her. You may only look and buy lap dances that yes, allow you to spend an allotted amount of time with her and feel her, but in a very unsatisfying and sometimes uncomfortable way. At a strip club, it never truly is all about YOU (the customer). And don’t forget you have all these extra eyes watching you. Whether it is other customers enjoying the dance you just payed for or the body guards making sure you do not cross this imaginary line. Here at Dennis Hof’s Sagebrush Ranch in Nevada, all you have to do is find the right girl and every fantasy, sinful pleasure, or vice you may have will be catered to – minus all the staring patrons and pressure to control your temptations. I have a libido from hell, so I too get to indulge and enjoy. The choice to become a working girl was motivated not only by money, but also by the fact that I can partake in any activity I want, and not just be a tease.

Unlimited sexual possibilities

Second, being in the confines of a nightclub I do not control the environment. All stimulus is prearranged, including the music and the options for activities. Some clubs only offer topless dancers where at others the girls can strip completely. Some clubs have V.I.P rooms while other clubs merely have sheer curtains to separate your seat from the next guy’s. At a strip club your erotic options are limited, usually to some sort of lap dance, and you don’t get real, prolonged privacy with your entertainer. Here at Dennis’s legal brothels, there is no end to how you can party. We can indulge in your hottest, deepest, most extreme sexual fantasies. There are virtually no limitations to what we can sexually explore together, in a truly private and discreet environment.

You get the real me

Lastly, and I feel most importantly, I chose to become a working girl because I do not have to hide myself. Dancing you have to differentiate your stage presence from your personal life. People are not having a full blown “Where did you grow up? How do you like your men? Whats your favorite position? Do you have multiple orgasms?” conversation while the girls are on stage. Its all in the eyes, the movements, and the outfits I happen to be wearing. In my opinion, the best foreplay is a very deep conversation about each of our wants and desires. We don’t have to edit our words or try and avoid security to indulge in our fantasies. You don’t have to assume what I like, because I can show you. You won’t forever have to imagine what it would be like if we had sex, because here at Dennis’ brothels all of us are given the opportunity to cum over and over again! Neither of us has to be disappointed when we get home because we didn’t get to feel the love of our “crush.” You get to know the real me versus the stage me.

I hope that with this little explanation you have come to understand why I was so attracted to this industry. We are all freaks at heart, and self awareness is the first step towards self-fulfilling prophecies.

Learn to listen to your libido; and in the mean time I will be warming up my sheets and fluffing my pillows…

Nevaeh Nova

Nevaeh Nova is an elite adult entertainer known for her exotic beauty and exquisite sexual expertise. An irresistible temptress, this radiant starlet will satiate all of your sensual desires at Dennis Hof's Sagebrush Ranch.

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Why Powerful Men Risk Being Caught With Prostitutes

Huge numbers of men, and women, pay for sex on a regular basis. This is evidenced by the sheer enormity in the numbers of sex providers worldwide, listed in the personal section of newspapers, working the streets, in brothels and advertising on popular internet sites. Let’s not forget all the employers (madams) who offer sexual services to a more exclusive clientele, as well as the countless sex providers who fly under the radar, operating by word-of-mouth only. Sex workers are found in all countries, cities, towns and in the countryside. Sex is a booming business, always has been and always will be. The people who seek sexual services range from low level workers, to those at the highest echelons of society.

For many, being caught with their “hand in the cookie jar” comes with huge consequences; loss of family, love, career, respect, money, their hopes and dreams. But for the high-profile client, the cost is often far greater. Powerful people have a lot to lose. There’s more expectation for them to behave a certain way, and an enormous amount rides upon their maintaining a certain persona. If caught, their sexual “transgressions” are plastered all over the news. They lose their reputations, and are made into a public laughingstock for the whole world to see. We see this happening time and time again with powerful men such as former President Bill Clinton; Governor Eliot Spitzer seeing escorts; former Israeli President Moshe Katsav; Head of the World Bank Paul Wolfowitz; John Profumo, Britain’s Secretary of State for War seeing a call girl; New Jersey Governor James McGreevey; French President François Mitterrand; Czech Republic President Vaclav Klaus; Detroit Police Chief Ralph Godbee; Former New York Rep. Anthony Weiner; former Director of the CIA and four-star general David Petraeus; Lockheed Exec Christopher Kubasik; Former South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford; Former U.S. Rep. Gary Condit; former Detroit Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick; U.S. Rep. Vance McAllister; Senator David Vitter who frequented a D.C. escort agency; former vice-presidential candidate John Edwards; Hugh Grant and Warren Sapp soliciting hookers. I could go on and on, but you get the picture.

Bryce Stevens from Dennis Hof's Kit Kat Brothel — Bryce Stevens from Dennis Hof’s Kit Kat Brothel

With so many clear cut examples of what can happen if caught, one can’t help but wonder why high-profile gentlemen continue taking such risks for sex? And why paid sex, which carries with it an additional social stigma? To answer these questions, we need to explore the options available for men seeking pay-for-play sex here in the USA and examine the benefits of paid sex.

Unfortunately, in the USA, the only option for risk-free prostitution is to visit a legal Nevada brothel like the Kit Kat Ranch where I currently practice my trade. A sexual encounter at a legal brothel eliminates the risk of being caught because the client never has to worry about the place being raided by law enforcement, and their name discovered in a little black book. In all the history of legalized prostitution in Nevada, not one person has been “outed” by a legal sex worker or brothel employee. That’s over 40 years of safe sex, and that’s a pretty good track record.

But, aside from these respected sex dens in Nevada, there are no other risk-free options for high-profile men to exercise their sexual desires with a working girl. The sex drive is a very powerful motivator that will compel men from all walks of life to seek out a way to satisfy their desires. If no risk-free option is available, most men will take the risk. It’s that simple – the desire for the services sex workers provide is irresistible.

So to the other question: What makes paid sex such a desirable situation? As a courtesan who’s worked with many high-profile gentlemen, here’s what I’ve learned. Men seek sex outside their relationship to solve a problem. Here are 17 of the most common problems paid sex solves.

Risk-Free-Escort — Bryce Stevens offers risk-free encounters at the Kit Kat Ranch

Sex at home has become a chore; weighted down by too many expectations, and burdens of daily life. Men want to play and have fun, free from expectations or burdens. Call girls provide light hearted, carefree fun. It’s adult playtime.
Escorts provide headache free, drama free sex, with no judgments, condemnations, prying questions or jealousies that go with many relationships. One never need put on an act, feel dirty, or ashamed of their sexual desires since the paid sex worker has likely seen it all. Anyone who’s lived a hi-stress life knows you can’t put a price on peace of mind.
Powerful men have trouble letting go. They have to be on guard 24/7. There’s always someone ready to take what they have. They need a place where they can decompress and let go. Most of them get very little of this. Visiting a courtesan is their one chance to totally let go and play like kids. Here they have romance, great conversation and great sex while I pamper and spoil them. They leave feeling like a million bucks, ready to conquer the world
Good escorts tend to see the inner person. It’s incredibly freeing to be with someone who accepts and loves you as is.
I don’t care how beautiful and sexy your mate is, at some point, sex with the same person gets boring. Money and power opens the doors to try out a lot of women with no strings attached and this is very attractive.
Men want a partner who thoroughly and unashamedly enjoys sex. Someone who is dying to get fucked, and cannot get enough of his cock. Courtesans are more uninhibited sexually. As a result, they thoroughly enjoy sex and have no problem showing it. Many, including myself, are highly orgasmic. Men love being able to satisfy a woman sexually.
Sometimes men just want get their rocks off, without the pressure to perform, or please a partner. Paying for sex ensures he can get the kind of sex he wants, when he wants, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, including holidays.
GFE (girlfriend experience) courtesans, such as myself, deliver a instant connection with genuine intimacy. A lot of busy, powerful men don’t have time for a relationship. Nor do they want the headaches of one. For them hiring a GFE courtesan is the perfect solution. They get a beautiful companion for dinner, romantic outings, business functions, special events, sexy overnights or weekends in bed. A quality GFE is sexy, classy, intelligent and sophisticated. She knows how to dress and act in public, so no one will guess the beautiful lady you’re with is for hire. Having a turnkey girlfriend far less time-consuming and dramatic than an actual girlfriend. You avoid all the fighting, jealousy, questioning, drama and in-laws. You’re 100% free, your life and time are your own.
Being surrounded by a lot of good “pussy” represents status, power and success. Rich and powerful men pay huge bucks to have lots of good quality, varied pussy at their command, because of the power and leverage it provides. Escorts are a regular aspect of doing business, ensuring new alliances, sealing business deals, and entertaining clients.
Men want to feel desirable, virile, and potent. Having their entire body ravished by a hot, sex starved female makes them feel alive, immortal.
It can be very lonely and scary at the top. Sometimes the men there just need comfort and closeness with no questioning or judging. A good courtesan provides comfort, closeness and a sympathetic, understanding ear.
Sex is great way for men to release stress quickly. Paying for sex means he can have it whenever he wants, how he wants. And he can experience all kinds of things he’d never get to do otherwise. Plus, it’s often cheaper to pay for sex than go to the expense of wining and dining someone in the hopes of possibly getting laid. With a hooker, sex is a done deal.
Sexual advances and suggesting unusual sex techniques and fetishes in the relationship are often met with rejection. With an escort he knows he won’t be rejected.
Courtesans are a great source of sexual advice. Some men seek their services to learn or practice sexual skills. Many first-time sex experiences are with prostitutes. I’ve seen 30, 40 and 50 year old virgins. Courtesans are more skilled than the average woman and men yearn to experience this, knowing they will learn from her abilities and thus increase their own sexual prowess.
Courtesans are a great way explore sexual fantasies. A lot of men have fantasies they don’t share with a significant other, because the typical women may find them too shocking. Paid sex lets them try out their fantasies in a safe, non-judgmental environment, with a willing, fun partner.
For some men, seeing hookers is a kind of sport they participate in with their friends; it’s a form of male bonding.
When one is unhappy or unfulfilled in their life, having a special lady appreciate them, value them, and treat them like a VIP helps fill the gap. A courtesans sole job is to make the man she is with feel special.

As Marlene Dietrich said: “A country without brothels is like a house without bathrooms.” Men will continue to seek the services of prostitutes, no matter the legal situation in their area. Perhaps it’s time that legislators in other states in the USA think about adopting the Nevada model for regulated, risk-free prostitution. Such legislation would certainly save a lot of powerful clients the reputation damage that comes with being caught with an illegal sex worker.

Bryce Stevens

Bryce is an elegant, sophisticated, full service courtesan who is specialized in Erectile Dysfunction (ED), GFE (the Girlfriend Experience) and Role-Playing. Bryce Stevens caters to upscale, distinguished gentlemen who seek deeply satisfying, intimate encounters.

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First Time Virgin – What To Expect

Ever since I hosted my virgin-related Reddit AMA (Ask Me Anything), I’ve been getting a lot of questions from adult virgins seeking to lose their virginity to a legal prostitute. One of the most common questions I’m asked by virgins interested in visiting a licensed brothel for the first time is “What can I expect?”

As an adult virgin, seeking out the services of a legal courtesan can seem like an overwhelming task to take on at first, which is why I’d like to address a few things you can expect from the ladies who work out of the Nevada Legal Brothels.

Before you get started with planning a vacation to visit Nevada you can always check our websites for the different line ups and email the ladies who catch your eye. Since it’ll be your first time, I recommend corresponding with your lady of choice and having her help you out with planning your vacation. We have special perks for customers traveling from out of state, such us special rates for hotel suites, free car services to transport you to and from the airport, and many more. Definitely ask your lady about these perks! This approach is optional of course, the other way to go about things is to show up unannounced and pick a lady out of line up. But regardless of how you end up here, there are certain things that a virgin can expect when visiting a sex worker.

first-time-virgin — A virgin’s first time at a legal brothel can be a nerve-wracking experience

Expect to be nervous

So now that you’re ready to walk into a brothel you might think, “How do I get rid of these nerves?!” When you’re having sex with someone for the first time it’s normal to feel at least a little bit nervous, so please don’t be hesitant to venture out of your comfort zone by hiring a legal courtesan to show you the ropes. A licensed professional like myself will be mindful of any initial nervousness during the encounter, and adjust accordingly so that the mood is pleasant and easy going. There’s no rush at a Nevada brothel, relaxing and taking the time to become totally comfortable with your partner is entirely acceptable and encouraged.

Expect more than just sex

Did you know that working girls can provide more than just sexual favors? Just like any girl would, we love being taken out and spending quality time with our partner, so going on a date before you give her your V-Card can make the experience that much more special. It’s important that the connection we feel is more than just a physical one, and that we are totally comfortable with each other by the time things get hot. In the Reno/Tahoe area there are plenty of date scenarios to experience, not to mention Vegas is only a short flight away. If you want to have an unforgettable first time, there’s no better way to do it than spending the whole night with your lady and waking up in the morning to enjoy breakfast in some romantic hotel suite. The only limit is your imagination, so think carefully about how you want to lose your virginity, that way when you look back to the first time you had sex you can cherish that nostalgia.

virgin-sex-worker — Roxanne Price from Dennis Hof’s Love Ranch

Expect to take it slow

Once the romance is set into the air, the intimacy shared between you and your courtesan should be approached patiently. Intercourse for the first time can be very exciting, so remember to enjoy lots of foreplay beforehand, that way your body will be fully relaxed before you lose your virginity. You don’t have to preform like a porn star to please your lady, just pay attention to how she reacts to the things you try together. Expect to feel sensations that you’ve never felt before, don’t try and anticipate what those may feel like, just let the pleasure happen in the moment. These are all valuable things to keep in mind, because if you keep your head in the present you won’t have anxiety about what might happen.

Expect to learn something

Be prepared to learn a thing or two, and don’t be surprised if you feel an incredible amount of accomplishment afterwards! One benefit of going to a Nevada brothel to revoke your V–Card is that we ladies are the best sex instructors in the business. A professional will communicate with you and give you the feedback needed to open your sex life up to opportunities beyond the bordello. Your life will be changed after such an encounter, and you will courageously go on to discover all of the sensual wonders that await you!

Roxanne Price

Lovely and curvaceous, Roxanne Price is an elite courtesan who prides herself on providing the “authentic girlfriend experience.” An empathetic woman with a genuine sensitivity to her client’s sexual needs, Roxanne provides transformative erotic experiences to men from all walks of life.

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Authentic Nuru Massage

The United States and Japan enjoy a very close relationship. We’ve been Military Allies since the 1950’s and our countries have exchanged tons of fun and exciting things in both directions for a very long time: Karaoke, Sushi, Kendo, cars, motorcycles, Go-Go Girls, movies, games – and even exotic sex techniques. You may have already heard whispers about one of these ultra-sexiful Japanese Specialties: Nuru Massage. What is Nuru Massage? Nuru was a super-secret Japanese Sex Technique created before the Internet existed. But today, thanks to the Net, you can see real Japanese Nuru Girls in action for yourself virtually anywhere in the world via Japanese Adult Videos (AV’s).

In Japan, we call Nuru “Lotion Play” or “Mat Play.” It is a specialized premium sexual service offered by Soaplands to customers who want the ultimate in intimate erotic encounters. To get started, we lay an ordinary air mattress on the floor of a specially-simulated bathroom, and then we cover it and our bodies with a lubricating lotion tailored for erotic sex-play. This lotion – or Nuru Gel – makes everything really slimy and slippery. In Japan our “Older Sisters” teach us how to make Nuru Gel from scratch, using closely-guarded super-secret traditional ingredients. Our Mamasan then teaches us how to apply it – and how to slide on top of the man’s body to bring him maximum pleasure. It doesn’t sound very difficult or sexy, does it? But once you’ve seen the shiny, squirming fully-aroused body of a girl straining to stimulate every inch of a starkly rigid fully-erect customer – live or in pornography – you will want to experience the real thing in person for yourself as quickly as possible.

Nuru-Massage-Sex — Kiteh Kawasaki from Dennis Hof’s Moonlite Bunny Ranch

Historically, the prewar Japanese Turkish Bath evolved into what we know as modern-day Soaplands in the 1960’s. A decade later, Miss Hamada from Kawasaki City introduced Nuru as a new kind of full-service body-wash and massage for men. Hamada-Sensei began to teach the secrets of this new Art to others through apprenticeship and also via articles in popular Japanese sex magazines. While Nuru Massage may have originally started out as an innocent scrub-down to relieve dry skin, nowadays it is nothing less than an epic erotically-charged sexual performance loaded with titillating tricks and secret techniques refined by Japanese sex workers for more than four decades. Surveys say 90% of guys want to try Nuru, but only 10% have done it. Most people have never tried it even at home with their wife or girlfriend. Wives might say “How did YOU learn about THAT?” so guys are naturally afraid to ask. It’s always safest to try it out with a pro first. But I do have to warn you: it’s totally addictive. Why? The lotion itself – when made freshly with authentic Japanese ingredients – is loaded with slimy erotic excitement. It’s totally nasty. Japanese girls say it makes them “empty” and you’ll find out right away it makes us go completely nuts. Nuru girls transform into something utterly foreign, shiny, slippery and exotic. Our breasts, thighs, ass and erect nipples slide over you rhythmically with a steadily-growing chorus of mind-numbing erotic sounds. Before you’ve climaxed a properly-trained Nuru Girl will pull away with a sticky, sucking sound so you can see her body totally aroused and covered from head-to-toe with the gooey sexual lubricant. Nuru is all about tactile, auditory and visual stimulation. It smells like sex – and it tastes like excitement.

Nuru-Massage-Girl — Kiteh Kawasaki offers authentic Japanese Nuru Massage

What you see in porn is totally different when you actually experience a real-life girl. You can feel her enjoying herself. You can taste the Nuru Gel in your mouth. She will wrap herself around you tightly, and you will be able to feel her slide you inside her over and over. The Nuru Gel will be everywhere by the time your session is over. That’s why we use a bathroom – and not the bed – for Lotion-Playing. Girls like to hug customers during sessions, because it feels good to them too. But it’s easy to fall if you’re not really careful on the Nuru Mat – and that makes it even more exciting. Experiencing real danger and real pleasure hand-in-hand brings out mutual tenderness and caring in both partners on the Nuru Mat. This strong feeling of mutual gratitude is what Japanese call “love.” It may look messy. But it feels so good.

Authentic Nuru Massage forges a deep mutual trust, caring and compassion focused on shared pleasure and physical well-being. Even a brand-new girl can become comfortably relaxed and deeply intimate with you almost immediately. Because Japan has cultivated the arts of compassion and hospitality for many centuries, a fully-trained Japanese Nuru Partner will instantly bond with you just like a long-lost soulmate – and she will treat you like living Royalty. This is an experience you’ve got to try in person to really “get it.” Bathing at home or watching porn can’t even come close. Japanese Nuru is a living art that very few foreigners can ever experience even at Japanese Soaplands or at Licensed Geisha-Houses that cater only to Japanese. But thanks to Dennis Hof you can experience authentic Japanese Nuru right now – here in America – with the only Japanese National licensed to thrill by the State of Nevada. And I will enjoy every minute just as much as you do. Because I just can’t get enough of that stuff. Call me…

Kiteh Kawasaki

Exotic courtesan Kiteh Kawasaki is the only Japanese National currently working in the legal Nevada brothel industry. Well versed in numerous Japanese pleasuring techniques, Kiteh is a featured entertainer at Dennis Hof's World Famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch.

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A First-Time Client’s Experience At The Bunny Ranch

Aaahhh the World-Famous MoonLite Bunny Ranch. I remember my first time visiting this mecca of sexual desire and fantasy fondly – especially the beautiful, hard-working courtesans whose livelihood is fulfilling the sexual fantasies of men – and also women – who are looking for anything from a simple “party” with a beautiful lady to a wild orgy that would make even the ancient Romans jealous.

But, today, we’re not here to talk just about them… we’re here to talk about YOU! That’s right, I’m talking to you, first-time brothel client, about what it was like during my first trip to the Bunny Ranch, one of Dennis Hof’s numerous beautiful, legal Nevada brothels. You see, much like yourself, I was once a first-time visitor to the Bunny Ranch and, despite what you may have read on the Bunny Ranch Blog or seen on HBO’s Cathouse, nothing can prepare you for the feeling of walking through the gates to a lineup of beautiful women or the experience of partying with an experienced courtesan whose sole desire is to satisfy your innermost fantasies. So, as your guide, let me share with you what I experienced during my visit, so that you can make the most out of yours.

Client-Bunny-Ranch — The exterior of the World Famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch

Pre-Trip Planning

Okay, so I’m a rather “vanilla” guy when it comes to sex, although I do enjoy girls with some piercings and ink and am really into threesomes. Whether you’re looking for YOUR first threesome, want to roleplay, engage in some BDSM or are looking to spice up your sex life with your partner, remember Dennis Hof’s famous quote: “It’s not just sex, it’s an adventure!” Before my “adventure,” I spent some time on the Bunny Ranch website and met a beautiful blonde, tattooed courtesan who I booked an appointment with. This not only helped make the experience more personal, but it was great knowing I had someone who was eagerly awaiting our experience together. You can’t talk “business” before you arrive at the Bunny Ranch, but you can at least have some nice conversation online beforehand to put your mind at ease and to get you even more excited as to the adventure that awaits you.

…Or Just Wing It!

Okay, so maybe you’re thinking “hell, the courtesans at the Bunny Ranch are all incredible, I’m just going to show up and see what happens!” That’s fine, too. when you first arrive, you’ll enter through the controlled access gates – there for your protection and that of the staff – and be greeted by a lineup of beautiful women who are ready to give you a complimentary tour of the brothel before you decide to party with them and/or another courtesan that catches your eye. No matter how prepared you may think you are, NOTHING will prepare you for the lineup! Staring at anywhere from a half a dozen to two dozen beautiful women who want to party with you isn’t easy, even for the most confident guy or gal. Although I had my one party lined up in advance, I did have the chance to experience the lineup a couple of times. It was awkward to not only having to choose one courtesan over the others, but I also felt, in a way, like I was “rejecting” the rest. Don’t let yourself feel this way; the Bunny Ranch courtesans are trained to show any potential clients an amazing time, and you may just find yourself parting with your second (or third… or fourth…) choices as well at some point during your visit.

…Or Both!

While I had made an appointment with the courtesan of my dreams prior to my arrival, my experience was so incredible that we partied again the next day… this time my “dream come true” threesome with her and another beautiful courtesan! You may have an idea of what you want in mind before you go, then arrive and find you want something slightly different. That’s okay, too – remember, the ladies are well trained in fulfilling desires and in leaving you wanting to come back for more.

The Atmosphere

Once you’re past the initial “hustle and bustle” of the lineup and have partied with your courtesan, the one thing that really surprised me was finding the Bunny Ranch parlor to be a rather chill and relaxing atmosphere. When in between parties, I often found myself casually conversing with the staff and courtesans, who often interacted like friends and family as opposed to co-workers. The courtesans at the Bunny Ranch don’t treat each other like competiton, so you’ll often see them chatting it up, singing karaoke or finding other ways to have fun, often with the clients joining in as well. What amazed me the most about the courtesans at the Bunny Ranch was their ultra-friendly, outgoing personalities and willingness to please. While I was understandably nervous when speaking with each of my courtesans before partying with them, they quickly made me feel comfortable and welcome, as if I was a guest in their home… unlike many of the gentlemen’s clubs I’ve reviewed, in which the “hustle” often sours the experience.

Amazing Amenities

I started out my first party exactly as I fantasized it… champagne in the Bunny Ranch Jacuzzi with my dream courtesan, followed up by an unforgettable party in the VIP suite. What you may not be aware of is the amazing amenities that the Bunny Ranch has to offer to ensure a sensual, erotic experience for even its most discriminating clientele. Pool, Jacuzzi suite, VIP room with dancer pole, full bar with friendly staff… the Bunny Ranch aims to make your visit as exceptional as possible.

Pre-Party Safety

Safety – for both the client and the working girl – is paramount at the Bunny Ranch. The state of Nevada has numerous sexual safety laws in place that the working girls readily comply with. While mandatory condom usage is a no-brainer, the most awkward experience, for me, was the courtesan performing a health check – lowering my pants and wiping me down – before our party. This may not be the most romantic way to start a party but, in the end, the awkwardness felt was quickly forgotten as my courtesan was certainly ready to have fun… and it was reassuring to know that I was being intimate with someone without the STD concerns that usually accompany any sexual experience.

In Closing…

Despite everything I’ve written, you’ll need to visit the Bunny Ranch yourself to truly understand the incredible experience that awaits you. Relax, go in ready to have fun, treat the ladies with the same courtesy and respect that you’ll receive from them, and you’re guaranteed to have an experience that you’ll never forget. Still nervous? Don’t worry, it will quickly pass… the courtesans of the Bunny Ranch will certainly see to that.

CJ Asher

CJ Asher is a gentlemen's club aficionado, author, and blogger on a variety of sex-related topics. For more of CJ's experiences at Dennis Hof's legal brothels and other adult entertainment venues, check out his website.

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What Do You Call A Legal Prostitute?

Often new clients come in feeling a little awkward, not certain how they’re supposed to conduct themselves around women in my career. It’s understandable considering how much myth and stigma is built up around sex work. It’s difficult to know what to call the lady you’re about to see, when society has given us a wide range of different terms, with no real differentiation between each one. Please keep this sex work lexicon in mind when having conversations with your lady of choice, as each word has its own unique connotation and meaning. Some terminology is widely acceptable, where as other terms are generally frowned upon. Others still have contested history, and a variety of different opinions when it comes to if and how that term should be used.

One of the most important things to remember is that we are professionals at work. We want to build a relationship with you and be your friend, but we deserve and expect a basic level of respect as working women. Despite what modern pornography might have taught you, most women don’t appreciate being insulted or degraded. Some do! Bring up dirty talk during the negotiation if it’s something you’re in to. But in general most people don’t appreciate being called “bitches,” “sluts” or the unfortunately ubiquitous “whore.” We are not whores. Neither are we “street walkers,” “hookers,” or “cunts.” We are “professional courtesans” and “legal sex workers.” These terms are broadly acceptable. Any others should be discussed on a personal basis.

LEGAL SEX WORKER: Generally accepted term, very okay to use.

COURTESAN: Generally accepted term, complimentary to use, as it speaks to the level of skill and professionalism that the lady has.

BITCH/SLUT/WHORE: Generally discouraged, if you wish to use such phrases, talk to each lady individually as to their thoughts and feelings.

You may say these things lightly, thinking it’s a joke, or that we should be used to it (or worse, deserve it) since we’ve chosen this career field. All those little joking insults build up. Imagine you went to work every day, doing your very best, giving your all at a very physically and emotionally draining task, and every person you met cheerfully insulted you directly to your face, and then continued to expect you to serve them with a smile. Imagine working behind the counter at a fast food restaurant and getting a “Thanks cunt!” every time you handed someone their fries. Doesn’t that sound exhausting? We want our experience together to be one that is filled with mutually positive memories- by using correct language, you’re going to find it much easer to connect with the lady, and have a pleasurable encounter with her.

Being your courtesan (especially during something like GFE) works best when there’s a genuine connection between us. I want to like my clients, and I love to discover each person’s best traits. I want them to like me too! But offensive language, especially when you lead with it before we even reach negotiations, can put up an immediate barrier that makes it difficult to connect. You’d have trouble building a relationship with someone who insulted you the first time they met you too. I refer to the individuals I see as Clients and Friends- I strive to respect you, because i value the time we spend together. In return, I ask that you please value and respect me by using terms that I am comfortable with.

Let’s talk about the word “Prostitute.” it’s one that has a rich history, and a wide variety of different connotations. What image comes to mind when you hear the word Prostitute? While it isn’t an automatically bad term, it is one that can carry a lot of weight to it. Personally, I prefer the term Courtesan, or legal luxury companion. Each lady has different feelings about the word prostitute- so please do have that conversation about her thoughts and feelings on the word. Sure conversations are a wonderful way to get to know the lady you are interested in, and discover more about her!

PROSTITUTE: Contested word with a variety of both positive and negative connotations. Please have a conversation with your lady of choice regarding to this word.

Treat your courtesans with respect. Remember that we’re people, experts in our field, doing our very best every day at a job that we really love. Use respectful language. Again, courtesan and sex worker are generally acceptable, but you should always feel free to ask your courtesan what they are comfortable with. Always try to live with empathy, thinking about how your actions – and words – affect others and imagine how it would feel to be in their shoes. And don’t worry if you’re unsure or don’t know what to do. That’s normal, and we’re able and very willing to help. There’s no such thing as a stupid question with us. The more both of us are on the same page, the better a time we’re going to have.

Alice Little

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