Category: Sex

I consider myself an overall positive person, always seeing the brightest side of even the most frustrating situations. For example, when I was in a traffic jam yesterday, instead of honking my horn and letting the stress of being late for my dentist appointment get the better of me, I took the opportunity to call family members that I hadn’t spoken with in a while. They were delighted that I used the extra time I had to reconnect, and I felt wonderful knowing that I brightened their day. I turned an exasperating traffic jam into a heart-warming family conversation.

I’m also a very sexual person, having always been very open about my sensual desires and eager to explore my personal sexual curiosities. Sex for me is more than merely an interest, it’s a passion. My love for all things erotic recently compelled me to explore a position as a legal sex worker at a popular Nevada brothel, and I was pleasantly surprised to discover that the bordello was also the ideal environment for my positivity. The supportive and life-affirming atmosphere of Nevada brothels are a perfect fit for this tiny beam of sexual sunshine, and I’m going to explain what I love about being a sex-positive girl in a sex-positive place.

Sex-positivity means being nonjudgmental

The first step in being a sex-positive person is to not judge another person’s sexual proclivities. Many people visit Nevada brothels because they fear that their sexual desires, should they be discovered, will result in scorn or ridicule from people in their personal life. A gentleman with a foot fetish, for example, might be embarrassed to reveal his penchant for feet to his wife, but he could extensively explore his fetishistic appetites in the nonjudgmental environment of a legal brothel with an open and loving partner like me.

There are a wide variety people in this world with an equally wide range of sexual inclinations. There are people that enjoy mixing a little pain with their pleasure, and consequently take part in the BDSM subculture. There are people who love role-play, sometimes to the extent that they get off on dressing up in anthropomorphic animal costumes. There are people who long to participate in threesomes, orgies, gang bangs, and all manner of naughty activities — and that’s all absolutely fine. Who is anyone to say that someone’s unique desires are wrong? As long as it is legal, their sexual interests can be explored in a licensed brothel with sex-positive lovers that will never judge anyone’s sexual needs.    

Sexual exploration leads to self-discovery

With a non-judgmental, sex-positive partner like me, my lovers are free to explore every sexual aspiration or fascination they’ve ever had. When everything’s on the table, my bedroom becomes a place where inhibitions are consigned to oblivion and erotic fantasies are allowed to become gloriously real. In such an atmosphere, where people are allowed to ask for what they really want — and allow themselves to experience what they genuinely yearn for, a situation of sexual self-discovery flourishes. The only way to truly know oneself is to become vulnerable, preferably in a safe place with a loving companion, and give in to the thoughts, needs, and sensuous cravings that have been repressed for too long. In that sex-positive situation, the real person is free to finally emerge from the constraining shell they’ve been living in.   

A positive sex life leads to a positive life overall

I have known many people that are too guarded or withdrawn when it comes to sex. They live their lives with their true longings bottled up, hidden from their family and friends. Over time, they become malfunctional, silently broken individuals. No matter what they achieve in life or what they attain in their work, there is an emptiness. Their sex-negative mindset prevents them from wholly appreciating the essential human need that is sex.

If we don’t explore the full spectrum of our desires, how can we truly be happy in life? If we are sexually passionless, with sex being such an important fundamental need, how do we maintain a lust for all that life has to offer? It’s important to invite sex-positive people into our world to ensure that we all lead rich, gratifying, and fulfilling lives. I’m pleased to know that there are at least a few places in Nevada where sex-positive people can readily be found, so that everyone has the opportunity to live complete, passion-filled lives.

“I like a guy what takes his time…” That’s what the great singer and actress Mae West sang in her 1933 film, She Done Him Wrong. Christina Aguilera recorded her own version of the song in 2010, which shows that this sexy tune has staying power. I write this not only because I’m a musician (I play piano, viola, cello, and guitar) in addition to being a courtesan, but because I love older men who, over the course of their lives, have learned to take it slow in the bedroom and make the beautiful experience of sex go on and on.

I’m a courtesan who craves being courted, to coin a phrase, and men of a certain maturity know how to treat a woman—in her whole self—very well. They know that a woman appreciates the whole effect of a man’s personality on her—the sound of his voice, the sensitiveness of his touch, the generosity of his attitude, a well-developed sense of humor (a witty older man is very sexy to me), the way he’s grown comfortable in his own skin, and ability to listen to, and make, interesting, flirtatious conversation. Of course, it helps if he’s nice-looking and well-dressed, but older men these days are often as fit as younger guys. And it also turns me on if he’s a sweet man. I specialize in offering the girlfriend experience, and it’s very easy for me to play that sexual role if the man with whom I’m spending time is basically a decent guy who really loves women. Some younger men have that kind of poise, but older men have it more because they’ve lived and learned what women want—sexually and emotionally.

Men with experience have loved women of all ages. They know the importance of eye contact during sex, where a guy looks deeply into your eyes while his hands are making mischief with your pussy. If you look at my photos, you’ll see I have cat eyes, and I just love it when an older man sits down on my bed while I lay there naked, my legs opened wide, and he stares at me while his experienced, gentle fingers open my pussy, stroke my labia and slip and slide in and out of me while we chat and get acquainted. An older man knows how to savor the pleasure of getting a girl slowly but steadily excited, my vagina moistening and awakening as he watches my facial expressions shifting and changing as he observes the erotic effects his finger-fucking is having on me: my eyes getting dreamy, my nose crinkling, my lips pursing, my breasts rising and falling as my breathing quickens, my inner voice making that unmistakable change from “Gee, what a nice man” to “ Oh, God, I am just going to fuck the hell out of him!”

You see, an experienced man gets a big kick out of turning on a woman, and, if she’s significantly younger than him, she can learn a few things about how older men have acquired the lovemaking skills they have. They’ve learned to spot the subtle signs a woman gives off as her horniness quickens. Her eyes narrow, her breathing changes, her body readies to receive his cock. One of my clients would converse softly with me, his fingers probing ever deeper inside me until they were covered with pussy juice. The he would withdraw them and use my natural lubricant to stroke my nipples to firm points. Sometimes he would use both hands to pull steadily at my nipples, and make playful circles around my areolae, until my body shivered with an orgasm. (Older men have learned that there so many kinds of climaxes a girl can enjoy, depending on which part of her body is played, just like I play my cello to make it sigh, throb, or sing, depending on how I draw my bow across the strings.)

Mature men know that a woman’s body is an instrument to be played, like a virtuoso musician coaxes sweet melodies from a blues guitar or a flute. And speaking of flutes—skin flutes—after a good pussy manipulation, I am so ready to suck off my “granddaddy.” While he’s been toying with my naked, lush body, I have him stay clothed. Why? Because, when I’m ready to sample his pole, I ask him to stand by the bedside while I sit up, rub the crotch of his pants, then unzip them and pull out a proudly erect dick. My hands stroke him, rub his shaft between my warm palms, then I grip it firmly and drop my mouth over his cockhead, sliding down until almost every inch of his manhood is inside.

I suck his luscious cock slowly but intensely, because that older man has taken the time to get me really worked up. Sometimes I slip my lips off him ever so slowly, and hold him in my loving grip while I lick the underside of his shaft, which is particularly sensitive.

Now, that kind of passionate cocksucking, on a younger guy, might make him spurt cum like a rocket. I don’t mind a guy cumming on my tits, but I love the control that an older man has learned. He knows the longer he lasts, the more pleasure he’ll enjoy from a beautiful young filly like me, and the more intense his climax will be—the kind that makes his asshole contract spasmodically.

That’s because he knows my warm cunt awaits to receive his well-prepared penis. After I’ve sucked him a while, I lay back, my legs in the air. Sometimes an older man will surprise me with the force of his mounting and penetration. He just nails me, like an old lion mating with a fresh younger female. Some of my elder gentlemen even growl as they stick it in and pound me like a pile driver. There’s a lifetime of sexual need behind the ferocity, a savage fierceness, of a well-experienced lover entering a young girl’s pussy. It makes my eyes roll and my cunt grip him tight as we rock back and forth together.

Don’t let anyone tell you that age diminishes a man’s hunger for sex. When he unleashes his climax, he’ll spurt strongly, 10 or 12 times, filling me up with so much ejaculate that when he withdraws, a whole lot runs out of me and soaks the sheets. And I’ve cum two of three times myself and am thoroughly exhausted.

Believe me, older men have brought me some of the most satisfying sex I’ve ever had. So, if you’re a man on the far side of fifty, give this young girl a call. I can always use a good fucking workout from a guy what takes his time.

Intimacy can come in many forms, with or without the inclusion of sex. It’s important to experience as many different levels of intimacy with your partner as you can both before and after intercourse. As a specialist in the girlfriend experience, I’d like to share some information about the different types of stimulation that can be achieved from something as simple as touch or an intense kiss. Oxytocin, sometimes called the ‘bonding hormone’, is naturally produced by your body during close intimate contact. Participating in these activities often can even promote your health! I hope that this article can help clarify why taking your time with intercourse is so very important. I’ve found that a number of people have this idea that they should just jump right into sex, especially with a provider of sexual services, like myself, but even the most casual foreplay can be crucial if you’re wanting to have a worthwhile experience.

There’s a myriad of positive sensations that come from being kissed, held, and enjoying human touch. I’m a big proponent of spending my time this way in the bedroom. It allows the both of us to relax and become more vulnerable to one other so we can really enjoy our experience together. While experiencing this kind of intimacy, you can simultaneously build sexual anticipation and discover exactly how to please your partner’s body. The mouth is a highly sensitive area and even small amounts of stimulation on your partner’s lips can drive them wild. Subtle sensations, like your partner’s scent and taste, start to overwhelm all of your own senses and allow you to become lost in experiencing their body. Feeling their breath on your face sends you into a sort of rhythmic trance, which can be extremely erotic! Not to mention there’s so many different ways to kiss, or be kissed… The tongue is eager to be stimulated, and slow kissing starts to become so much sweeter.

Personally, I enjoy a naughty bite on the lip to grab my attention, and playfulness in the bedroom can create some delightful results! The most intimate part of kissing someone is making eye contact… That’s really what fuels a passionate makeout session. I take great pride in learning how to be a great kisser for my partner. I make an excellent teacher in person, but what I will share with you now is that you don’t have to be a good kisser naturally… It’s all about learning how your partner would like to be kissed, and being able to communicate your own desires. If you are being kissed a certain way and enjoy it, then you can always mirror your partner’s rhythm, or you can switch things up with a little bit of communication. Everybody enjoys different things, so be sure to give your partner feedback on what you like!

The best way to cuddle with your favorite person is during a cold winter night. It feels the absolute best when you can notice the delightful contrast of hot and cold. It’s the same reason why lava cake is so delicious! You have the option of being the big spoon, or the little spoon… It’s such a conforming way to drift off into dreamland. Cuddling is a genuine bonding exercise as well! The closeness makes you feel valued, and it can be healthy for both parties psychologically. If you want to have a long lasting relationship, then remember to do lots of it! Feeling the weight of another person’s body encircling yours can remedy feelings of anxiousness, just like a weighted blanket would.

You should always cuddle before and after enjoying sexual intimacy. I understand that some people aren’t as interested in extended connections, but as a long-term sex worker I always do my best to invest in meaningful encounters. I focus on enjoying my partner as much as I can, and part of that is achieved by communicating what arouses my desires. There have been plenty of occasions where someone has sought out my services and we didn’t have sex on the first date at all! Candid conversations and having interactive experiences together is another way to build a healthy amount of sexual tension… Of course, this is the preferred way to achieve a healthy connection between two people. A willingness to cultivate a connection properly will always result in better pleasure for both of us… The more sexual tension we can build up before our encounter, the more thoroughly you will enjoy yourself. I’m someone who aims to maximize my partner’s pleasure, so this is the best advice I could ever give for doing just that.

Many people seek out organic time, love, and care. To me this comes naturally, as I take my time with every experience I enjoy with a partner. I believe it’s important that non-sexual intimacy be a part of every experience! It’s my hope that the idea of sex workers strictly providing rushed encounters can and should be a thing of the past. Being able to provide therapeutic intimacy for someone who doesn’t normally get it is by far one of the most satisfying parts of what I do.

Ever wondered how your day would turn out if It had just started better?  Wake up with that amazingly hard erection and nobody to share it with — or you’re just plain cranky because you didn’t sleep great? Let’s change up the same old routine and instead wake up with me!

Hi there!  I’m Harley Lane. I’m a Bunny Babe at Dennis Hof’s World Famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch. Let  me tell you a little secret — I’m always horny in the mornings! I wake up with wet panties sometimes because I am so horny, but then I go straight to my morning routine. I wake up, wash my face, brush my teeth, take my vitamins, eat a snack, go to the gym, shower, tan and get ready for appointments. I want to change it up. Don’t you? Wake up every morning, same routine, day in and out? Let’s switch up the pace together! There are all kinds of benefits of sex in the morning. So why not try it out?

Benefits of Sex in the AM

1. It’s a great way to break up your daily routine and start with a positive attitude!

We can take that nap later in the day or put off our chores for just a few minutes! An orgasm is one of the best things in the world. Try it in the morning and you’ll be on cloud nine. Or at least you should be!

2. It can boost your Immune System.

Some studies claim that cumming in the morning can help produce more antibodies to help fight infection.

3. Men are more likely to last longer and have better erections.

Most doctors will tell you that a man’s testosterone levels are highest after a good night’s rest. You’ll be well rested and your T will be at its top so men will be more energetic with an increased libido.

4. Its an excuse to stay in bed just a little extra.

The sheets are warm and invite you to stay, let’s get naked and enjoy the bed a tiny bit longer!

5. You’ll remember it throughout your day.

You will have something amazing and hot to think about all day long while you work or run errands. The image of our bodies together, and how wonderful we made each other feel, will put a smile on your face all day long.

6. We can both pass on the gym.

Doctors and health care professionals will most likely tell you that you’ll burn almost the same amount of calories after a hot session of getting naughty as you might doing a good workout. You might even feel better when we’re through.

7. You don’t have to go looking for someone to help you get laid.

We’re already in bed together! Forget the bar scene and wake up with me, sober and turned on. I want you, wouldn’t you want me too? Please…?

8. It’ll make waking up something to look forward to.

I’m not a big fan of crawling out of bed first thing in the morning, but I can look forward to a good orgasm…or a few!

9. It can increase oxygen and blood flow to your brain.

What a way to kick start your brain activity and functions. We have to wake up some time. This is definitely my favorite way to get my thoughts going.

10. Helps manage stress.

We’re starting our day with something fun, put all your daily tasks to the back of your mind and just relax. I’ll do all the work if you want me to…

We can start our time the night before. Dinner and a movie or a bubble bath and sensual massage before bed time. We don’t have to, but at least spend the night with me to get the full Harley treatment! We can cuddle and watch TV to settle in for the night (after a little fun of course.)  Waking up next to me is the first change. I love getting some in the morning. I just don’t get to do it enough! Help me out a little! I’ll let your imagination figure out the details, positions, where you want to kiss me and… Afterward, you can shower and get ready for the day and I’ll make you a wonderful breakfast. How about some waffles and bacon?  If you are trying to stay a little on the healthy side we can have some tasty fruit!

Now that is what I call starting on the right side of the bed! Come join me?