The Joy of being Sex-Positive!

Posted by Lola Love on November 20, 2017

I consider myself an overall positive person, always seeing the brightest side of even the most frustrating situations. For example, when I was in a traffic jam yesterday, instead of honking my horn and letting the stress of being late for my dentist appointment get the better of me, I took the opportunity to call family members that I hadn’t spoken with in a while. They were delighted that I used the extra time I had to reconnect, and I felt wonderful knowing that I brightened their day. I turned an exasperating traffic jam into a heart-warming family conversation.

I’m also a very sexual person, having always been very open about my sensual desires and eager to explore my personal sexual curiosities. Sex for me is more than merely an interest, it’s a passion. My love for all things erotic recently compelled me to explore a position as a legal sex worker at a popular Nevada brothel, and I was pleasantly surprised to discover that the bordello was also the ideal environment for my positivity. The supportive and life-affirming atmosphere of Nevada brothels are a perfect fit for this tiny beam of sexual sunshine, and I’m going to explain what I love about being a sex-positive girl in a sex-positive place.

Sex-positivity means being nonjudgmental

The first step in being a sex-positive person is to not judge another person’s sexual proclivities. Many people visit Nevada brothels because they fear that their sexual desires, should they be discovered, will result in scorn or ridicule from people in their personal life. A gentleman with a foot fetish, for example, might be embarrassed to reveal his penchant for feet to his wife, but he could extensively explore his fetishistic appetites in the nonjudgmental environment of a legal brothel with an open and loving partner like me.

There are a wide variety people in this world with an equally wide range of sexual inclinations. There are people that enjoy mixing a little pain with their pleasure, and consequently take part in the BDSM subculture. There are people who love role-play, sometimes to the extent that they get off on dressing up in anthropomorphic animal costumes. There are people who long to participate in threesomes, orgies, gang bangs, and all manner of naughty activities — and that’s all absolutely fine. Who is anyone to say that someone’s unique desires are wrong? As long as it is legal, their sexual interests can be explored in a licensed brothel with sex-positive lovers that will never judge anyone’s sexual needs.    

Sexual exploration leads to self-discovery

With a non-judgmental, sex-positive partner like me, my lovers are free to explore every sexual aspiration or fascination they’ve ever had. When everything’s on the table, my bedroom becomes a place where inhibitions are consigned to oblivion and erotic fantasies are allowed to become gloriously real. In such an atmosphere, where people are allowed to ask for what they really want — and allow themselves to experience what they genuinely yearn for, a situation of sexual self-discovery flourishes. The only way to truly know oneself is to become vulnerable, preferably in a safe place with a loving companion, and give in to the thoughts, needs, and sensuous cravings that have been repressed for too long. In that sex-positive situation, the real person is free to finally emerge from the constraining shell they’ve been living in.   

A positive sex life leads to a positive life overall

I have known many people that are too guarded or withdrawn when it comes to sex. They live their lives with their true longings bottled up, hidden from their family and friends. Over time, they become malfunctional, silently broken individuals. No matter what they achieve in life or what they attain in their work, there is an emptiness. Their sex-negative mindset prevents them from wholly appreciating the essential human need that is sex.

If we don’t explore the full spectrum of our desires, how can we truly be happy in life? If we are sexually passionless, with sex being such an important fundamental need, how do we maintain a lust for all that life has to offer? It’s important to invite sex-positive people into our world to ensure that we all lead rich, gratifying, and fulfilling lives. I’m pleased to know that there are at least a few places in Nevada where sex-positive people can readily be found, so that everyone has the opportunity to live complete, passion-filled lives.