Why Couples Seek Encounters with Sex Workers

Posted by Alice Little on October 14, 2016

Sex in our society is a taboo subject – especially when it comes to sex with more than one person, and couples inviting an additional person into the proverbial marital bed. However, the past few decades have brought a resurgence of sexual exploration, including a new found interest in threesomes. There are countless reasons for the interest in three-way sex, including the ongoing popularity of the swinger lifestyle, but the fact still remains: Couples are coming out to the ranches in droves, looking to fulfill their fantasies of having an additional partner in the bedroom.

It makes perfect sense to bring a legal sex worker into bed with you and your partner. Here are just a few common reasons:

1. It’s Legal and Safe

Each lady working at a legal brothel undergoes an extensive background check prior to working at the ranches, so you can feel comfortable around your lady of choice. Additionally, we undergo medical testing each week, ensuring that your encounter here is risk free. The number one fear of bringing in another partner is that they may have an unknown STI. By visiting a ranch lady to meet your desires, you no longer have to worry about that risk.

2. It’s Discreet

Couples often are concerned about neighborly gossip- What will the neighbors think, if we bring home another lady? This is a serious concern for many, as it is perfectly normal to value one’s privacy. When you and your partner come to the ranch, you know that your identity is safe and secure. Our billing process is equally discreet, for your benefit and protection. 

3. It’s Professional

When you need your teeth cleaned, you make an appointment with your dentist. In the same fashion, when you’re looking to have your sexual desires met, it makes perfect sense to hire a professional. Many ladies, including myself, welcome and enjoy spending time with couples. In fact, I have a number of glowing reviews from couples I have spent time with. When you already have an established relationship with someone, it can be difficult for a third person to navigate their way into the dynamic. With me, thats never an issue. I always take the time before our party to talk to both parties- jointly and separately, as to what their wishes, wants, and desires are for the encounter. We also go over any limitations that you may have, so that you can lay back, relax, and enjoy our encounter. 

4. It’s a Bucket List Item

Many men, and women consider the act of having a threesome to be a major bucket list item! It’s like anything else in life that you want to experience- you seek out the best way to make that happen, and plan ahead.   By e-mailing the lady you are interested in before your appointment, you have the chance to get to know them better, and discover common interests. 

5. It’s Life Changing

There is no better way to get to know yourself and your partner more intimately in the bedroom. You’ll be surprised to discover new sexual pleasures you can give each other, as well as discover new things about your own sexual interests. Couples often tell me that having an encounter with a legal sex worker was just the thing their relationship needed. It brings an added spark to the bedroom, something new and different! 

I encourage any couples considering an encounter with me to e-mail me, so we can begin discussing our time together. I personally respond to all e-mails, and will happily take the time to answer all of your questions. If you’re looking to surprise your spouse with an encounter- just let me know, and I’ll help you plan everything. A beautiful woman, willing and waiting for your significant other in bed is one of the best presents I can think of to give someone. No matter what you have in mind, I promise we will find a way to make your fantasies come to fruition, and have an incredible time doing so!

Are you ready for your first threesome as a couple?

Many couples have concerns when looking for their first three-some adventure. These are very valid, and are worth talking to your partner about in advance. I always encourage my couples to express their personal desires to each other, as well as to me. Are there any particular positions that you have in mind? Are there specific boundaries that you aren’t comfortable with? Are both of you 100% on board with the idea of a threesome? Keep in mind that a threesome encounter can change your sex life for the better- so long as everyone is genuinely interested in the experience. If one of you are hesitant, or have concerns, do take the time before your appointment to address those things.  The most common pitfall in my experience is when both partners aren’t on board with a threesome. If you’re already having marital issues, a threesome isn’t going to be a magic fix. Instead, consider spending time together without a third and working on that aspect of your relationship before bringing in the new dimension of an additional partner.

If you and your partner are devoted to each other, and ready to explore new sexual possibilities, proceed ahead to your encounter!

Top Must-Do things Prior to Your Three-Way Adventure:

1. Set Boundaries

Common examples include ‘no vaginal intercourse’, ‘no french kissing’, and establishing protocols to stop all activity. You can even write these out, and bring them with you. It’s important that you make it clear what is off-limits for the sex worker. Of course, I can help you sort these out when we get together. 

2. Trust me, and each other

You’re visiting with a sex worker because you trust each other and have a bond so strong, and a relationship so stable, that you’re willing to enhance your sex life by adding another sexual participant. Now it’s time to trust in the experience of your sex worker, and let her guide you on your exciting and sensuous journey. While every threesome experience is unique and special, it’s important to understand that your sex worker intimately understands three-way sex. This isn’t her first rodeo. She knows all of the emotional and physical cues to look for, and is well versed in a variety of positions and techniques. Let her help you decide the most comfortable approach to this experience so that all parties involved could have the most intense and pleasurable erotic experience imaginable.

3. Arrive Early

I always welcome and encourage my couples to arrive prior to our set appointment time, so we can spend some time beforehand together in the parlor. We can have a couple of drinks, sit, talk, and get to know each other better. It’s very important to me that both of you are feeling comfortable before we enter the bedroom. We will take as long as you both need to settle in and relax before the festivities begin!