Why Powerful Men Risk Being Caught With Prostitutes

Posted by Bryce Stevens on September 13, 2016

Huge numbers of men, and women, pay for sex on a regular basis.  This is evidenced by the sheer enormity in the numbers of sex providers worldwide, listed in the personal section of newspapers, working the streets, in brothels and advertising on popular internet sites.   Let’s not forget all the employers (madams) who offer sexual services to a more exclusive clientele, as well as the countless sex providers who fly under the radar, operating by word-of-mouth only.  Sex workers are found in all countries, cities, towns and in the countryside.  Sex is a booming business, always has been and always will be.  The people who seek sexual services range from low level workers, to those at the highest echelons of society. 

For many, being caught with their “hand in the cookie jar” comes with huge consequences; loss of family, love, career, respect, money, their hopes and dreams.   But for the high-profile client, the cost is often far greater. Powerful people have a lot to lose.  There’s more expectation for them to behave a certain way, and an enormous amount rides upon their maintaining a certain persona.  If caught, their sexual “transgressions” are plastered all over the news.  They lose their reputations, and are made into a public laughingstock for the whole world to see.   We see this happening time and time again with powerful men such as former President Bill Clinton; Governor Eliot Spitzer seeing escorts;  former Israeli President Moshe Katsav; Head of the World Bank Paul Wolfowitz; John Profumo, Britain’s Secretary of State for War seeing a call girl; New Jersey Governor James McGreevey; French President François Mitterrand; Czech Republic President Vaclav Klaus; Detroit Police Chief Ralph Godbee; Former New York Rep. Anthony Weiner; former Director of the CIA and four-star general David Petraeus; Lockheed Exec Christopher Kubasik; Former South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford; Former U.S. Rep. Gary Condit; former Detroit Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick; U.S. Rep. Vance McAllister; Senator David Vitter who frequented a D.C. escort agency; former vice-presidential candidate John Edwards; Hugh Grant and Warren Sapp soliciting hookers. I could go on and on, but you get the picture.

With so many clear cut examples of what can happen if caught, one can’t help but wonder why high-profile gentlemen continue taking such risks for sex?  And why paid sex, which carries with it an additional social stigma?  To answer these questions, we need to explore the options available for men seeking pay-for-play sex here in the USA and examine the benefits of paid sex. 

Unfortunately, in the USA, the only option for risk-free prostitution is to visit a legal Nevada brothel like the Kit Kat Ranch where I currently practice my trade. A sexual encounter at a legal brothel eliminates the risk of being caught because the client never has to worry about the place being raided by law enforcement, and their name discovered in a little black book.  In all the history of legalized prostitution in Nevada, not one person has been “outed” by a legal sex worker or brothel employee. That’s over 40 years of safe sex, and that’s a pretty good track record.

But, aside from these respected sex dens in Nevada, there are no other risk-free options for high-profile men to exercise their sexual desires with a working girl. The sex drive is a very powerful motivator that will compel men from all walks of life to seek out a way to satisfy their desires. If no risk-free option is available, most men will take the risk. It’s that simple – the desire for the services sex workers provide is irresistible.

So to the other question: What makes paid sex such a desirable situation? As a courtesan who’s worked with many high-profile gentlemen, here’s what I’ve learned. Men seek sex outside their relationship to solve a problem.  Here are 17 of the most common problems paid sex solves.

1. Sex at home has become a chore; weighted down by too many expectations, and burdens of daily life. Men want to play and have fun, free from expectations or burdens.  Call girls provide light hearted, carefree fun.  It’s adult playtime.
2. Escorts provide headache free, drama free sex, with no judgments, condemnations, prying questions or jealousies that go with many relationships.  One never need put on an act, feel dirty, or ashamed of their sexual desires since the paid sex worker has likely seen it all.  Anyone who’s lived a hi-stress life knows you can’t put a price on peace of mind.
3. Powerful men have trouble letting go. They have to be on guard 24/7.  There’s always someone ready to take what they have.  They need a place where they can decompress and let go.  Most of them get very little of this.  Visiting a courtesan is their one chance to totally let go and play like kids. Here they have romance, great conversation and great sex while I pamper and spoil them. They leave feeling like a million bucks, ready to conquer the world
4. Good escorts tend to see the inner person.  It’s incredibly freeing to be with someone who accepts and loves you as is.
5. I don’t care how beautiful and sexy your mate is, at some point, sex with the same person gets boring.  Money and power opens the doors to try out a lot of women with no strings attached and this is very attractive.
6. Men want a partner who thoroughly and unashamedly enjoys sex.  Someone who is dying to get fucked, and cannot get enough of his cock.  Courtesans are more uninhibited sexually.  As a result, they thoroughly enjoy sex and have no problem showing it.  Many, including myself, are highly orgasmic.  Men love being able to satisfy a woman sexually.
7. Sometimes men just want get their rocks off, without the pressure to perform, or please a partner.  Paying for sex ensures he can get the kind of sex he wants, when he wants, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, including holidays. 
8. GFE (girlfriend experience) courtesans, such as myself, deliver a instant connection with genuine intimacy.  A lot of busy, powerful men don’t have time for a relationship.  Nor do they want the headaches of one.  For them hiring a GFE courtesan is the perfect solution.  They get a beautiful companion for dinner, romantic outings, business functions, special events, sexy overnights or weekends in bed.  A quality GFE is sexy, classy, intelligent and sophisticated.  She knows how to dress and act in public, so no one will guess the beautiful lady you’re with is for hire.  Having a turnkey girlfriend far less time-consuming and dramatic than an actual girlfriend.  You avoid all the fighting, jealousy, questioning, drama and in-laws.  You’re 100% free, your life and time are your own.   
9. Being surrounded by a lot of good “pussy” represents status, power and success.  Rich and powerful men pay huge bucks to have lots of good quality, varied pussy at their command, because of the power and leverage it provides.  Escorts are a regular aspect of doing business, ensuring new alliances, sealing business deals, and entertaining clients.
10. Men want to feel desirable, virile, and potent.  Having their entire body ravished by a hot, sex starved female makes them feel alive, immortal.
11. It can be very lonely and scary at the top.   Sometimes the men there just need comfort and closeness with no questioning or judging.  A good courtesan provides comfort, closeness and a sympathetic, understanding ear. 
12. Sex is great way for men to release stress quickly.  Paying for sex means he can have it whenever he wants, how he wants.   And he can experience all kinds of things he’d never get to do otherwise.  Plus, it’s often cheaper to pay for sex than go to the expense of wining and dining someone in the hopes of possibly getting laid.  With a hooker, sex is a done deal.
13. Sexual advances and suggesting unusual sex techniques and fetishes in the relationship are often met with rejection.  With an escort he knows he won’t be rejected. 
14. Courtesans are a great source of sexual advice.  Some men seek their services to learn or practice sexual skills.  Many first-time sex experiences are with prostitutes.  I’ve seen 30, 40 and 50 year old virgins.    Courtesans are more skilled than the average woman and men yearn to experience this, knowing they will learn from her abilities and thus increase their own sexual prowess.
15. Courtesans are a great way explore sexual fantasies.  A lot of men have fantasies they don’t share with a significant other, because the typical women may find them too shocking. Paid sex lets them try out their fantasies in a safe, non-judgmental environment, with a willing, fun partner.
16. For some men, seeing hookers is a kind of sport they participate in with their friends; it’s a form of male bonding. 
17. When one is unhappy or unfulfilled in their life, having a special lady appreciate them, value them, and treat them like a VIP helps fill the gap.  A courtesans sole job is to make the man she is with feel special.

As Marlene Dietrich said: “A country without brothels is like a house without bathrooms.”  Men will continue to seek the services of prostitutes, no matter the legal situation in their area. Perhaps it’s time that legislators in other states in the USA think about adopting the Nevada model for regulated, risk-free prostitution. Such legislation would certainly save a lot of powerful clients the reputation damage that comes with being caught with an illegal sex worker.