I want to come to the ranches to party with some of the ladies, but I have an issue. Because of my chemotherapy medications, I have trouble getting an erection, and once I achieve orgasm, it's difficult for me to get it up again. But I don't want a quick "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" session; I want to party for several hours. Are any of you ladies good at getting a man to get it up several times during a party? What tricks do you use to induce an erection?
Thanks Roxy! Dear @T-Lover74, The great news is that there is hope!! You can start by doing what I call "Kegel exercises for your cock". You can search that same phrase on Youtube and find the exercises you need. Here are a couple that I like. . I don't think you need to buy the program, you can use common things around your home to add weight. Kegel Exercises For Men - How To Last Longer in Bed With Kegel Exercise | Male Kegeling I'm not saying these exercises will cure ED, but at least you will be trying something proactive. I also highly recommend Cialis, a Rx you would need to get from your doctor. I have clients in their late seventies and 80's that use this "erection in a pill" and it really, really works better than the hundreds of other male enhancement rip offs that are available. Most like Cialis better than Viagra. Also be realistic. If it has been years before chemo that you have been able to achieve erection and ejaculation several times a session, it certainly won't happen right away after chemo without getting in optimum physical condition. Moregood news is that I provide optimum external conditions to arouse even the dead! I provide a lovely mix of ambiance and I pay attention to every little detail to totally turn me and you on. I always say to myself that if the gentleman I am with does not have an erection before I even book the money, well then, I haven't done my job. Take it from there to my being able to relate to people at all levels building rapport. Add to your experience, my own personal love nest that I have created throughout the years that add an unparalleled ambiance; - soft lighting, proven & pleasant sexually stimulating aromas. Plush, clean, grand linens. The best of powders, soaps, oils and lotions. - The grandest of all beds in the house. Every accouterment that I've found to aid any and all levels of sexual prowess or challenges. - My skillful learned and formally educated touch and maneuvers. My genuine interest, kindness and full attention to you. - My God given award winning and mind blowing sexual talents. My true love of the sport! And sweetheart - if none of that does it for you, I have even more tricks up my sleeve! So, my love, I do have 100% confidence that I am a sure bet to see how much we can still get out of your love muscle at this point as long as you have an open mind and are willing to put forth some effort on your end too. I hope I have solidified your decision to see me. I am certainly excited to see you and do all these things that I love and to share them with you while also just making a new friend and having a pleasant time. How wonderful is that? Also, I was sole caregiver to my brother battling stage 4 anal rectal cancer so I am familiar with what you might be going through with chemo. Bless you for even having sex and relations on your mind and in your heart at this time. I think it's just spectacular and I am SO GRATEFUL to be able serve you, my higher power, mankind and myself at the same time. Please let me know if you have any more questions, concerns or requests - or anything at all. When you arrive at the Bunnyranch, I will be anxiously awaiting you , looking out the window of the door, ready to greet you with open arms, a smile and a big ol bear hug when you get here! Email me [email protected] if I have piqued your interest and just to get to know each other and make a connection. Thank you for your honesty. Honesty gets you the results you need. xoxo
Wow... great reply to this gentleman Amy... I have been to the MBR twice in the past 6 months and Sagebrush once. I had prostate cancer, am 63, and brought a "toy" to use, but the little guy somewhat came alive (slightly) during my visit. Would love to have a true professional try to make it "unnecessary" for me to bring anything along but myself. If nothing works? C'est la vie, but it sounds like I'd still have an awesome time.
Also: OK, so maybe you "thought" it would just take a seeing and being with a more youthful, what you consider to be beautiful, young lady and "bam' you could get stimulated and get that elusive hard on of your 20'2 and 30's. Well, it just doesn't work like that any longer when you get into your 40s and beyond. It simply takes more than just visual stimulation and there is nothing wrong with that, it's called "life" and learning how to live a fulfilling life as your body ages. I have the most experience, the patience, formal education, empathy, compassion and true love of the human spirit and all things erotic too. Here is some more info on aging and ED. 5 Key Ways Sex Changes for Older Men What men over 45—and the women who love them—need to know. Posted Feb 03, 2013 One thing doesn’t change, older men’s—and women’s—ability to enjoy erotic pleasure. But with age, sex changes. It becomes less like the Fourth of July, and more like Thanksgiving. However, even without exploding fireworks, the erotic flames can still burn hot and bright—if older men adjust to the changes aging brings, and if women involved with older men understand what’s happening to their lovers. When does a man become sexually “older?” It varies, but usually between 45 and 50. A medically problematic lifestyle, for example, smoking, typically accelerates the changes, and a healthy lifestyle may postpone them, but even men in robust health with exemplary lifestyles experience age-related sexual changes. Depending on the man, the changes may develop gradually or surprisingly suddenly, like within six months. 1. Erections become iffy. After 45 and certainly by 50, erections rise more slowly and become less firm and reliable. Sexual fantasies are no longer enough to raise one. Men need fondling, and as they grow older, often increasing amounts of more vigorous stroking. It’s disconcerting to lose firmness and suffer wilting from minor distractions—a phone ringing—but these changes are normal. Unfortunately, many men mistake them for erectile dysfunction (ED) and become anxious that they're nearing the end of the erotic ropes. This makes things worse. Anxiety constricts the arteries that carry blood into the penis, making erections even less likely. In addition, many medical conditions impair erections, accelerate age-related sexual changes, and contribute to ED: obesity, diabetes, heart disease, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, and lack of regular exercise. True ED involves the inability to raise an erection despite extended, vigorous masturbation. If older men can still get an erection solo, they don't have ED. They have normal (annoying, perhaps infuriating) erection changes. “Here’s my advice to older men with balky erections,” says Palo Alto, California, sex therapist Marty Klein, Ph.D, “Relax, breathe deeply, ask for the kind of touch that excites you, and instead of mourning what you’ve lost, focus on the pleasure you can still enjoy.” Even true ED need not limit sexual pleasure, says retired Maryland anesthesiologist Ken Haslam, M.D., who teaches workshops on sex and aging, “Men don’t need erections to have orgasms. I’m 76, and I’ve had wonderful orgasms without erections.” 2. Premature ejaculation (PE) may return. PE is usually considered a young man’s problem, the result of over-excitement in young bucks starting to rut. But the landmark University of Chicago “Sex in America” study shows that many men—about one-third—report it throughout the lifespan, meaning that PE is men’s most common, most persistent sex problem. A recent scientifically rigorous survey shows that PE affects 31 percent of men in their fifties, 30 percent in their early sixties, 28 percent from 65 to 70, and 22 percent from 75 to 85. PE has two major causes, anxiety and penis-centered sex. Anxiety makes the nervous system—including the nerves that trigger ejaculation—more excitable. Young men are often anxious about sex: Will she let me? How do I do this? The reason PE sometimes returns after 50 is that age-related erection changes make men anxious: Will I get hard? Will I stay hard? What the @#$% is happening to me? SCROLL DOWN THIS THREAD FOR CHANGES 3, 4 & 5.
a Just focus on the fun you are going to be having!!! Don't put too much pressure on "performing" You will have a fantastic time no matter what! You can party as much or a little as you want. -Pure heart with a dirty mind, Randy Ryder
I’ve partied with some gentleman with the same problem baby and they were all happy! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
3, 4 & 5. 3. Intercourse fades from the sexual menu. Intercourse is fundamental to reproduction, but after the reproductive years, it becomes problematic. For older men, iffy erections and ED become increasingly prevalent. Meanwhile, older women, develop vaginal dryness and atrophy (thinning and inflammation of the vaginal lining), which can make intercourse uncomfortable or impossible, even with lubricant. Older couples who remain sexual typically abandon intercourse in favor of what Haslam calls “outercourse,” whole-body massage, oral sex, and playing with sex toys. With creative outercourse, older couples can enjoy very erotic, orgasmic sex without intercourse. If women involved with older men want to feel "filled up," well-lubricated fingers and dildos are good alternatives. 4. Surprisingly few older men use erection drugs. The myth is that older men pop erection pills routinely. The truth is that few have even tried them, let alone become regular users. German researchers surveyed 3,124 older men, 40 percent of whom reported erection difficulties. Ninety-six percent could name an erection drug, but only 9 percent had ever tried one. Cornell researchers surveyed 6,291 older men, half of whom complained of erection problems. How many had tried a drug? Just 7 percent. As older lovers take intercourse off the sexual menu, men no longer need erections, so they don’t need erection drugs. 5. Men’s sexual pace becomes more like women’s. Young men become aroused more quickly than young women, and many young women complain, “He’s all finished before I even feel aroused.” But older men take longer to feel turned on. The transition to slower arousal is disconcerting for many men, but it means that the sexual discord of youth can evolve into new sexual harmony. “Compared with young lovers,” explains Richard Sprott, Ph.D., a developmental psychologist at California State University, East Bay, in Hayward, “older couples are more sexually in synch. Couples who appreciate this can enjoy more fulfilling sex at 65 than they had at 25—even without erections and intercourse.” FOR THE MOST EXPERIENCED AND EDUCATED COURTESAN IN NEVADA EMAIL ME [email protected]
