RANCH SPECIAL Intimacy and Connection plus Oxytocin

Intimacy can come in many forms, with or without the inclusion of sex. It's important to experience as many different levels of intimacy with your partner as possible before and after intercourse. As a specialist in the girlfriend experience, I’d like to share some information about the different types of stimulation that can be achieved from something as simple as a touch or an intense kiss. Oxytocin sometimes called the ‘bonding hormone,’ is naturally produced by your body during close intimate contact. Participating in these activities can often even promote your health! I hope that this article can help clarify why taking your time with intercourse is so very important. I've found that several people have this idea that they should just jump right into sex, especially with a provider of sexual services like myself. Still, even the most casual foreplay can be crucial if you want to have a worthwhile experience.

A myriad of positive sensations come from being kissed, held, and enjoying the human touch. I'm a big proponent of spending my time this way in the bedroom. It allows us to relax and become more vulnerable to one another to enjoy our experiences together. While experiencing this kind of intimacy, you can simultaneously build sexual anticipation and discover precisely how to please your partner's body. The mouth is a susceptible area, and even small amounts of stimulation on your partner’s lips can drive them wild. Subtle sensations, like your partner's scent and taste, overwhelm your senses and allow you to become lost in experiencing their body. Feeling their breath on your face sends you into a sort of rhythmic trance, which can be highly erotic! Not to mention there are so many different ways to kiss or be kissed... The tongue is eager to be stimulated, and slow kissing becomes much sweeter.

Some enjoy a naughty bite on the lip to grab their attention, and playfulness in the bedroom can create some satisfying results! The most intimate part of kissing someone is making eye contact... That's really what fuels a passionate makeout session. I take great pride in learning how to be a great kisser for my partner. I make an excellent teacher in person, but I will share with you now that you don't have to be a good kisser naturally... It's all about learning how your partner would like to be kissed and being able to communicate your own desires. If you are being kissed a certain way and enjoy it, you can always mirror your partner’s rhythm or switch things up with a little bit of communication. Everybody wants different things, so give your partner feedback on what you like!

The best way to cuddle with your favorite person is during a cold winter night. It feels the absolute best when you notice the delightful contrast between hot and cold. It's the same reason why lava cake is so delicious! You have the option of being the big spoon or the little spoon... It's such a conforming way to drift off into dreamland. Cuddling is a genuine bonding exercise as well! The closeness makes you feel valued, and it can be healthy for both parties psychologically. If you want a long-lasting relationship, remember to do lots of it! Feeling the weight of another person’s body encircling yours can remedy feelings of anxiousness, just like a weighted blanket would.

You should always cuddle before and after enjoying sexual intimacy. I understand that some people aren't as interested in extended connections. Still, as a long-term sex worker, I always do my best to invest in meaningful encounters. I focus on enjoying my partner as much as I can, and part of that is achieved by communicating what arouses my desires. There have been many occasions when someone sought my services, and we didn't have sex on the first date! Candid conversations and interactive experiences together are another way to build a healthy amount of sexual tension... Of course, this is the preferred way to achieve a healthy connection between two people. A willingness to cultivate a connection properly will always result in better pleasure for both of us... The more sexual tension we build up before our encounter, the more thoroughly we enjoy ourselves. I aim to maximize my partner's pleasure, so this is the best advice I could ever give.

Many people seek out organic time, love, and care. To me, this comes naturally, as I take my time with every experience I enjoy with a partner. I believe it’s essential that non-sexual intimacy be a part of every experience! I hope that the idea of sex workers strictly providing rushed encounters can and should be a thing of the past. Giving therapeutic intimacy to someone who doesn't usually get it is one of the most satisfying parts of what I do.

 

Hi, Hannah! I sent you a text message about intimacy in which I heard it described as “into me see”. Intimacy is when we see into someone else. Intimacy involves some level of vulnerability. When you share your deepest, darkest secret(s) with another person, that person is someone you trust, can be vulnerable with, and generally have an intimate connection.

I don’t usually get therapeutic intimacy and would like to receive it from you. I definitely don’t want to rush or feel rushed when partying with you. I plan on flying out to Nevada for the 4th of July holiday to meet you at the Bunny Ranch. I plan on being on vacation in Nevada for one week. When you’re on holiday or vacation, you usually slow down and relax. I want to slow down, relax, and enjoy you and you enjoy me.