a lot of you have said that you get your lingerie from Amazon, which is awesome, you know, it's not unreasonable and i'm the low-maintenance kind of guy who enjoys the song "Redneck Woman" by Gretchen Wilson, you know, girls look as good [to me] in Hanes Her Way from a Target rack as they would in something more fancy like from DarkestFox.com. my number one observation, as far as it goes, though ... is that, when a man buys a girl lingerie, it's often better that he errs on the side of the more chic and fashionable, is why i had posted that earlier thread and question. i, myself, think that that's as it should be, you know, i was raised to think that girls should [primarily] buy their own underwear with comfort in mind and [to spoil themselves on occasion] buy something for themselves that makes them feel special. i was raised that, should a boy buy a girl underwear, he should think along the lines of, "What would make her feel like I desire her? especially because I do desire her." you see that same philosophy in media, too, like in the tv show Bones: she had just given birth, and was going through some post-pardem transitioning, and he was trying to figure out how best to cheer her up. [if memory serves] someone suggested lingerie, so he went to the store, and that's what the assistant said: get her something that will make her feel sexy, not just something that she would buy for herself, even, to make herself feel pretty. at any rate, i've subscribed to several mailing lists, and Yandy is doing something sexy with face masks. https://www.yandy.com/masks.phpxp=e...wnjc0osj9lcixmdcwmtiionsiawqioiixmdcwmtiifx0= furthermore, now that i've subscribed to @AliceLittle 's Try-Team on Patreon [well, it's included in my tier, anyway], i have mentioned that i am looking for "get out of my shell" kind of Truth Or Dare kind of games that i might simply walk into a bar or strip club or something and play with random people. i figure that'd be cool and, even if they hope or expect that i'm looking to go home [or even just to the bathroom] with someone, i am free to choose to not; i wouldn't have to wait until it was too late to realize that i didn't want to do her(them), lol. idk ... i'm the dumbest person on Earth; you can even ask my family, lol. ... i had bought this game, called The Game Of Things.... and i had hoped that it would serve the purpose, it would just need at least 5 players to be both fun and fair because one person, each round, would need to abstain from playing and be the reader because its a game in which answers are given in handwriting and the players are supposed to guess who wrote what. ... ... and i'm rambling, and i apologise, and a i'll shut up now. ... [bonus] https://www.yandy.com/sex-gifts-and...m-costumes-amuser_id=ym9sahvpc2jlqg1hawwuy29t ["daily double"] Honey Birdette has changed the look of their bondage game, catering more to the pet play recently. the cuffs, leashes, and other basic things are the same and yet have taken on the addition of Equestrian in their labels. now, also, their swing has stirrups, and there's a belt that has stirrups for when ... well, we're all adults, so we should all know, lol. https://us.honeybirdette.com/collections/bondage/ they offer two basic harnesses, the Equestrian [of course] Harness https://us.honeybirdette.com/collections/bondage/products/equestrian-harness and the Leather Strap In https://us.honeybirdette.com/collections/bondage/products/leather-strap-in when people are window shopping, those who don't get Honey Birdette's newsletter and/or don't go beyond the thumbnail gallery of any given category, they miss two very subtle harness offerings: their Ava collection, which has grommets and O-rings for the purpose of attaching cuffs-n-stuffs directly to the lingerie https://us.honeybirdette.com/searchq=ava and their Kukuro collection, which has the same more-or-less proprietary design https://us.honeybirdette.com/searchq=kukuro again, though, i get the newsletter, which gives me photos of how they encourage these sets to be worn and used. ... otherwise, like i've told Caroline Peach at Mustang Ranch [was Lily Peach, while she was with you], whatever you're looking for, like traditional harnesses https://anoeses.com/collections/harness or anything else that, to you, is hard to find, i'm your huckleberry. i happen to love research, i just can't afford certain things for myself, right now, and i like the thought of @AliceLittle surprising me and of watching her get to now me [if that's part of the Try-Team experience]. i also like the thought of pitching in, in some way, rather than just seeming to promise that i'll visit and then never following through.
