just sayin': ...

i've never been a "pickup artist"; never cared to be, though i do comprehend the value of an icebreaker.

i happen to be a put off artist; at least, it MUST be artful, what i do.

if good communication [on my end], though, equals being a pushover, then i don't see the point in communicating.

also, it isn't my fault that the vast majority sees assertiveness and, especially in written dialogue, mistakes it for aggressiveness.

... just sayin'.

 

I think a take charge/assertive kind of guy is sexy!

-Pure heart with a dirty mind,
Randy Ryder

 

This is such an interesting thread,
thanks for posting