Hello I had a few questions to help plan my first trip. I am reaching out here to get information from as many of the ladies as well as clients as possible to make sure that I am prepared for my first visit. If this is not the place to ask I apologize, I don't want to email a lady direct as I don't want to waste her time as well as I want to understand more if the questions end up being up to the ladies discretion. I have never done anything like this, I've never had a 1 night stand or picked someone up from the bar, so meeting someone at a ranch and having a party in a short period of time is new to me. If the answers have been posted before please let me know where, I've looked through a lot on the forums and didn't see them. Now that is out of the way here are some questions. I have hear if you choose an overnight or a weekend long party that the ladies will not party the whole time as they still need there sleep etc? I also read somewhere that some need their own room or bed as they do not sleep next to someone or want the touching throughout the night. If that is a myth, or if it is up to the lady, then am I allowed to wake them up for more intimacy? Also if we are on a weekend date how do I initiate time with her, is that something they will discuss while in negotiation? I will leave it there for now, depending on the answers and discussion I might have more. I really appreciate anyone willing to discuss this with, I don't want any one to feel obligated and I don't to waste anyone's time, especially the ladies as time is money.
If you’re there for an overnight or weekend, yes the ladies need their sleep, but you’ll be with them. They’re not gonna send you back to your hotel room and have you come back to resume the party. The ladies will be keeping you company. The sex itself is just a small part of it. There’s talking, cuddling, sitting in the tub, all that stuff. In my own experience, I go for the company, the companionship. I do have sex, but it’s not all I do.
Old Nick, thank you for the reply. yes I know that sex is a small part of it and I was hoping that it was a myth that they leave you or need their own bed. But I also get that they need their time and space as well, and I'm sure there are creeps in the past that have tried something while they slept so it also made sense that it could be true or at least up to the ladies if they wanted another bed. Kiki lover hello to you as well!
Old Nick gives good advice here, additionally I would say reach out to the specific lady who you want to spend the time with. There really isn't a set answer for your questions as all of the ladies are independent contractors and each will have their own differing ways of responding to your questions. Communication is going to be the big key to you having a successful and memorable party!! Let them know clearly what you're looking for...tactfully, of course and you'll find everything can be discussed and arranged ahead of time except the prices. Good luck, hope this is everything you're hoping for!
The first thing you need to do is stop listening to others! The fact is most of the misinformation out there is coming from guys who don't know what they are talking about because they can't afford to come(time wasters) so they purposely put negative stuff out there to hurt the ladies business because he has been wasting her time! They have never been to the ranch, they don't plan on coming to the ranch, they have never been on outdate, and certainly would never do an overnight, why because they can't afford to or to cheap to! Saying you have heard just adds to the misinformation. My suggestion is find out for yourself!! Right now you're on the fence! I get it I was there!! Asking a million questions isn't going to get you to the ranch any faster. You just got to go for it man! Find several ladies You Really like! Make your appointments, Show Up, have fun and see how things work! This is the only way you will learn what it's like and how things work. You will learn how to negotiate. Every lady is different. Some ladies might like to party all night some ladies might like to sleep. You can always do a multi girl overnight. I see Randy Ryder every trip and if I had to do it all over she would have been my first choice. I needed someone Hot down to earth and thoughtful who could teach me about the ranch and give me a mind blowing party. I've done lots of outdates and an overnight with her and we are planning more and muti girl outdates and overnights. My point is the only person that can tell you what the ranch is like is you and that's by actually going to the ranch and finding out yourself. Sorry if I gave you some tough love but this is the only way you're going to learn the facts.
TiredFrog, thank you for the advise I figured most of it was up to the ladies but wanted to see if there was anyone who could elaborate more on the subjects. I know I'm not the only one with questions like this but it seems to be difficult to get answers without emailing a lady so I was hoping to open a discussion here. Tony Dark, thank you for the response. But unlike you I do not have unlimited money to party as often as you. If I'm spending thousands of dollars to take time off works, fly across a few states, hotel room for multiple days, plus unknown amount for the time with the lady/ladies, then find out that things are not what I thought they would be. I'm sure I will have a great time, but I still have questions. I get that I just need to make the leap and at some point I will, just like you did your first time and like many people before you did. I don't know if I prefer the all night or the I need my space and sleep side of things so I was thinking if anyone responded they could tell me what they do and maybe a pro/con to why they chose that way over the other. A quick sentence is all vs a long email back and forth, especially if I end up not choosing her now I feel as if I wasted her time.
You're welcome I'm sure you will have fun and I hope you take the leap because there are a lot of things you won't know until after your first trip. We can answer all your questions and it might not be right for you. You may find out the next day it wasn't the lady that needed to sleep but you did. The cool thing is you can come back and try it again.
I think it's really kind of you to not want to waste our time but I can say as a lady I never feel like my time is wasted when I answer emails. If someone is genuinely reaching out than I'm THRILLED to email and answer all your questions! If I'm not the right lady, I'll help you find her! Personally I love to cuddle on my longer parties. I love the connection and the intimacy we get when we can cuddle and sleep next to each other. Some ladies may feel differently but that's where the emails come in! You'll be able to tell the lady what you're interested in and they can tell you if they offer that. I personally never mind being woken up for round two! Also if you're emailing a lady but end up not parting with her but you appreciate her time you are always able to tip her! It's never obligated but it's something I've always been very grateful for when it does happen.
I wanted to respond to this one specifically because I've worked with this before! I don't kiss and tell in my parties of course but I did get permission to anonymously share this. I did have a client who thought he wanted to share a bed on our outdate and sleep side by side. He discovered that he actually needed a bit of space to wind down after the more intimate moments of our party. He was comfortable telling me this (thank the gods!) and I had a quick and easy solution! We "paused" the party and I called the driver to come get me, and then the time we didn't use on our overnight he used as a second party the next day! As long as you let me know when we need to adjust things I'm usually able to do so! I know myself and many other ladies pride ourselves in our ability to adjust things as needed so you can invest in yourself and enjoy every moment!
You're welcome I hope it helps and it seems like you're getting other good answers from different situations.
Delilah Rae, thank you very much for the response! I didn't even think of that as an option to pause/end date early and get a second party! It's discussions and tips like this that I am looking for! Thank you very much!
Please feel free to reach out and email me! (I've been having some trouble with the chat) I'd love to be able to answer any other questions you have!
Good afternoon! I hope you are well c3wanted. I am a girlfriend experience extraordinaire. I enjoy touching AND being touched, I welcome you to explore my mind AND body just as much as I hope to explore your own(your limits respected of course). I am into eye contact, and love cuddling. I have been a Nurse for 16 years, currently earning my Master's to become an NP, so I am well educated and enjoy conversations. I also love to play chess, so if you enjoy a good chess game then I am your girl! I welcome you into my room, into my bed, you are my guest. I enjoy sharing a bed during overnights and wouldn't want to kick anyone out that would enjoy my warmth during the night. all my best, Rebecca
I think it’s all in the wishes of the client. If you need your space, they’ll accommodate. Me personally, I love the intimacy. I always go for a GFE. I’ve just never been able to spring for an overnight.
Personally if I had to choose I'd like to have all day together vs all night because at some point I need sleep lol. If we go all day that's much less of a concern. If I have to limit my time with someone I want to be able to as much of it awake as possible.
Old Nick, thank you for the input and I think the GFE is the best way to go from what I gather. Delilah Rae, thank you again for the responses and another great tip! If I can only get a certain amount of time why waste it sleeping when I can spend quality time with the lady I'm with!
So to add more questions. If I want 2 ladies do I email both of them or just 1 and they share with the other? What if they are on different shifts or tours? Then when it is negotiation time am I getting to negotiate with both separately or is it a single price for both and they know the split they will each get? Do I leave a deposit with each or again just 1 and they split with the other?
I would reach out to both personally or if there is a lady that you for sure want and say plan to party wth one lady on her own for an hour and then party with that lady and a second lady for another hour (2 hours with lady A, 1 hour with lady B total) I'd reach out to lady A first. Ladies from different house can party together! Again it all comes down to talking with the specific ladies, I've had times were I arranged everything a head of time for myself and my client and times where the client negotiated with me, then with the second lady. It all comes down to how you want. It would be expected you leave a deposit for both ladies as it is both their time you're asking to guarantee.
All great responses so i have nothing to add that hasn't been said...we all have emails so I would definitely start there. Good luck to you! If you want to reach out my email is [email protected]
If you want 2 ladies for a "2 girl party" then that's the service you will be negotiating for. If you are unsure who want to pick as a 2nd just ask the 1st one who she prefers to party with and that will make things run alot smoother. If they are both bi even better! If you have the time and money you can always arrange an outdate for the 3 of you. Go out to grab a nice dinner at a casino or restaurant in town. Reno has alot of good spots. Then after all the eating and drinking return back to the bedroom for some REAL FUN!
Here is some info that can help hun. Partying over night is fantastic. Especially waking up together in eachothers arms and being intimate as often as you want together. In long parties we can choose to not go on shift the following day if we didn't sleep and partied the whole night away. This goes for overnights or long weekend parties. Some of us like myself..like being touched all night. Inimacy cums and goes all night long. But yes some ladies may want to rest. So be sure you try to communicate. Myself i prefer to make love through the night into the morning and day as we wake up through the hours together. So its good to rest , more fun to party, and its your job not to think ahead or worry. I promise we will be fine. Communication is key through the negotiations and party. I suggest messaging some to get that feel of who you are comfy with. Especially if nervous. Youll want that soft touch to get it started so you can feel fine to let yourself be you. Im warm , affectionate and love gfe , overnights and 2 girl parties. Being fully bi its quite fun. I suggest talking to the primary girl you have in mind if you want a 2 girl overnight. Youll want her to feel out the other lady if she wants to, or she may have a few in mind shes partied with that shes already attracted to. A lot of ladies already have a pick they party with. That makes the chemistry even hotter when both females got eachother down emotionally and sexually. Some things to keep in mind , if your shy dont worry, im a great initiator. And a lot of ladies will be the same way. The best part about extended overnight stays is the intimacy that doesn't stop. Kissing, touching, caressing, showering together, holding eachother through every hour. Youll want to ask questions to. Some girls will and won't do certain things. But we love talking and messaging. So be yourself hun. ❤❤
Pizza Man, thanks for the response. I know I need a 2 girl party, the question I had is if I just reach out to 1 girl and say I want this girl also and she sets it all up or if better the contact both separately. With the negotiation process I didn't know if again will I be working one at a time or both together. As they set their own prices will I need to get each ones separate amount. Or is it more like we have communicated through email/phone calls/text about what I want in the party now we sit in a room and 1 girl says her price then the other girl her price or did they discuss it before I arrived and 1 girl says here is the total for both?
AlexaHaze, that whole post sounds amazing! Communication is key for sure and I know most stuff is based on each girls preferences as well. Some of the things are rules or common practice so I want to make sure I know that as well. I really appreciate the advise/tips.
Hi hun. Your welcome,. When negotiating a 2 girl party both girls can each negotiate seperately, or if they know eachother well and trust one can do the whole negotiation, and then she can confirm with the other lady if it is a Go. Ive had it done both ways. It makes it easier for the client especially .
Very welcome hun. I prefer partying till were tired out then resting and making love through the night. Another tip, If were exhausted we just tell the desk. They let us off our shift the next day if needed or untill we feel rested enough. So as far as sleep we will be just fine <3
