Women Are Sharing The Signs That Men Watch Too Much Porn, And It Just Goes To Show That Porn Sex And In Real-Life Sex Are Not The Same https://www.buzzfeed.com/shelbyheinrich/men-porn-sex-reddit?origin=web-hf
A Well I definitely see correlation to what is popular in porn as to what some guys think is good bedroom skills and manners.... Porn and Smacking?????? Smacking the gals ass? I just do not get it. Why the heck would you smack me and hurt me while I was fucking you real good. Like a damned horse or something . And you only smack a horse....well....idk do you ever even smack horse? I find it offensive, rude, abusive and absolutely uncalled for in my room. A sprite young fella learned a real good life lesson yesterday when he hauled off and smacked the side of my ass pretty very hard twice in succession w/o warning. Oh yeah, he learned that lesson of not to do that with me very quickly....
I've been pointing this out to people for some time now, how porn is teaching young guys these horrible things and they think its the correct way to treat a lady. Whether its slapping her without consent, spitting on her or when she says no, you just force things on her because she really wants it anyway. Porn teaches young guys these things and I really wish it could recognize its role and be a better teacher.
I concur! Now it's the hair pulling, choking, pissing on, gagging, degradation, humiliation ...... I just sometimes think our society is doing a full 180 degree turn.... but maybe it's just cyclical...... Good thing someone is always willing to sell anything for the right price.......
This is why I always ask if they want their ass spanked , some do, I have had one partner that LOVED it but a lot of them either don't like it at all or if they do it is the lightest possible spanking. What I have found is it's more likely that she wants her ass grabbed during sex especially during reverse cowgirl The pornstar style blowjob with the deep thorating and gagging, I don't think that's a thing outside of porn, maybe it is but I have never gotten a blowjob like that, I'm sure some women can do it and enjoy it but I think it's rare I have yet receive a blowjob like that
One recurring theme that's not abusive, but is unrealistic, is that women are ready to go in just a few seconds. So in a video he'll start penetration or oral sex and she's moaning in ecstasy within seconds. Our (men's) natural inclination in problem solving is to try harder, so if a man believes porn and his partner is not moaning in real life his response is to go faster and harder. This is a vicious cycle that makes the problem worse, and nobody is enjoying themselves.
I agree that "Porn Sex" and "Real-Life Sex": ARE NOT THE SAME Real Life Sex is more personal sharing intimacy and romance. Porn Sex is "A lot of "Hardcore Sex" especially in my films. I have "Featured in Over 300 Adult Films". Here's an example: https://xhamster.com/videos/bachelo...-cumisha-amado-bionca-3810901?from=share_mail
I bet he did Lol... Sex with you is Porn sex the more you give the more you get and I'm not talking about money fellas. I don't want to smack that ass but I'll smack on the clit Haha
I don’t recall the pornography I watch being quite as…. violent as some of the posts here suggest. I’m sure it’s there…. the web contains a lot of porn after all. I think the only time I have seen something like slapping or choking or hair pulling has been in mainstream movies when a character is getting straight up raped. The orgasms seem pretty over the top though. I have a pretty keen bullroar detector. I mean, half the time these women sound like they’re so utterly overwhelmed with ecstasy that they’re about to have an aneurysm and die. I may have never had sex before, but I doubt it’s that intense.
Max Hardcore. Although off set he seemed a really nice guy. (I took a class with him on website something) God rest his soul as he just recently passed and friends of mine visited him shortly before that. His genre was very popular and did incite many copycat bedroom antics. I am here to tell you the truth of that. Period. With Love. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Max_Hardcore
No you're not being cynical Just a question have any of the ladies had guys or girls come in and ask to ve tied up or turned into subs cause that's what they seen in Porn? I do understand that they are asking for it vs just doing it without asking.
I think some valid points to make at least from a woman’s perspective is that we don’t use spit as lube because it’s unsanitary and most of us don’t want our beautiful hair pulled. Boundaries should be discussed beforehand to make the experience a good one
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Thanks for sharing this! I wondered why some men did the things listed in this article and never have I associated it with an individual's expectations from porn! Great Post!
You’re right and you are also not entirely right. I shoot porn, and I have to say a few things… Yes, porn is often staged and shot in a way that looks more flattering or is fantastical. However, there is a lot of porn (especially amateur, but even some mainstream) and aspects of porn that are very real. Many of my hook up videos with women are real. I have filmed encounters with co-stars where we forgot the camera was even there. So, I disagree that all porn sex is not real sex. I do agree that a lot of mainstream porn that is pushed to the forefront and is staged can cause misconceptions about sex.
Of course, sex in porn and in reality are different, but nevertheless I like to watch such videos. Now I'm looking for a new site where I can watch porn of different genres for my entertainment. I recently came across this site with gore videos. Did anyone present watch them there and can share their experience? It looks quite interesting.
While porn is very important too many young people are learning about sex solely through porn and use this as their guide to sex in the real world which we all know isn’t “reality” and this can cause problems for them in real-life situations.
This is anecdotal, but we've heard of studies that find that some young men: Spend a lot of time watching porn Achieve orgasm exclusively by masturbating to porn Watch increasingly extreme porn to get aroused And then when they're with an actual woman they can't get an erection because their brain is hardwired to associate sex with porn instead of with women.
That list made me cringe a bit... like that's not how you finger someone.... As for the folks pointing out ass smacking, hair pulling, choking, etc. I file those under kink related and thus require proper negotiation before play ideally. As Dan Savage says porn is kaboki theater next to the real deal. Porn usually has thin plot lines that lead to the action or focus straight on the act itself. Real sex? Usually involves a degree of flirting to warm folks up (as getting an idea of what they like), playfully establishing consent, communicating with your partner during the foreplay/warm up phase as well as during the act itself.. and remember if consent is revoked by either party during the experience STOP! Real life sex is about two or more people having fun and working with each other to have a good time for all parties involved ideally. Porn is there to stimulate erotic feelings in the viewer.
